Every year seems to get better and better when it comes to innovative nail trends, but 2025 has already proven to be something of a standout year for manicure inspiration. While maximalist designs like Amalfi-inspired “Italian summer” nails and 3D beach nailshave been taking off for summer, we’ve spotted a simpler take on nail art emerging as one to watch for the season ahead. Enter: polka-dot nails.
Somewhat of a retro print, this summer’s polka-dot manicures balance ‘80s charm with a modern minimalism, taking a simple dot and transforming it into endless creative nail art looks. Whether it’s a monochromatic polka print or a rainbow of mismatched dots, the beauty of polka-dot nails is that they are so versatile. Plus, they pair nicely with basically every other trend out there, from French tips to neon hues. Ahead, find 11 of the very best polka-dot designs dotting our social feeds right now.
Proving that polka dots are the perfect nail art look for minimalists, this manicure created at Amiri nail salon layers monochromatic polka dots over a groomed and glossy princess manicure for an ultra-polished look.
Why pick just one color when you can have, well, 20? This riotously bright nail look by GetNailed salon is essentially a dopamine hit in manicure form. Obsessed.
If you don’t fancy an all-over print, then polka-dot French tips are proving popular right now. This look by Gia Artistry uses a warm chestnut brown tone with bright white microdots for a wearable everyday manicure.
An homage to the more-is-more aesthetic of the ‘80s, where polka-dot power two-pieces once reigned supreme, this jewelry manicure by Hattonnails embraces opulence in the best way. Quiet luxury? We don’t know her.
Rather than going for all-over print, nail tech @beautybyabigailjessica has created a fun polka-dot-bordered manicure to frame some cute floral nail art. A fun and unexpected way to wear spots.
The eclectic mix of French tips, negative space and pops of red makes this striking set created at Newcastle’s Vibe nail salon the ultimate cool-girl polka-dot manicure.
Between soap nails and juicy nail tints, it’s clear that sheer and dewy manicures have dominated this year. So it makes perfect sense for nail artist Shannon Elias to opt for a pink jelly base for this microscopic polka-dot design. Essie Jelly Gloss in Blush Jelly, $13, makes the perfect at-home color for this look.
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Occupation: Business analyst Industry: Oil and gas Age: 28 Location: Houston, TX Salary: $90,000 Joint Income & Finances Setup: $170,000 ($90,000 from me and $80,000 from my husband, P.). I just started my job about a month ago. Prior to that, I was on a break for about three years to work on my mental health. During that time, P. supported the family solely on his income. However, now that I have a job again, we split the finances 50/50 (if it seems like P. pays more monthly that’s only because I pick up the tab on other occasions like when we eat out or get coffee, which is a lot). Currently, this is what works for us, but if that ever changes, then we will adjust our finances.
Assets: We purchased our home in 2020 when the interest rate was incredibly low because of COVID-19 (they practically gave us the house). The current value of the home is $400,000, and we purchased it at $330,000. We put 5% down and have an interest rate of 2.5%. Currently, we own approximately 20% of the home while the bank owns the rest. We each own our own cars which in total value about $8,000; they are both old cars that have a lot of mileage on them, but at the very least, we don’t have to make any car payments. My car itself is only worth $1,000 in the market. I’ve had it since I was in high school at 17, so I have a lot of sentimental attachment to the car. I do want to purchase a new car in 2026 or 2027 depending on how we are financially. Neither of us have any savings or retirement savings (we’re really living on the edge here).
Debt: $7,000 owed to parents (saved me from racking up that much in credit card debt). My parents saved me from going into further credit card debit while I was on my personal health break. During this time, I depleted all my savings and retirement accounts and went into credit card debt. However, I was fortunate enough to have parents that were willing to bail me out.
Paycheck Amount (Biweekly): $2,800
Pronouns: She/her
Monthly Expenses
Housing Costs: Our mortgage is $2,000 per month which we split evenly between the two of us. Currently, my younger brother lives with us while he is attending university, but we do not charge him rent. We would only charge him rent if he had a full-time job, but he plans to move back in with my parents once he does find a job. Additionally, there is a high property tax that we pay annually, approximately 5% of our home’s value. This is lumped into our escrow, but will be moved out soon due to the fact that we own 20% of our home. So in the upcoming year, 2026, I expect to pay a high property tax bill with a lowered overall mortgage. Loan Payments: $1,000 to my parents. HOA: $142 Car Insurance: $42 Electricity: P. pays approximately $200 (depending on the month). Water: $0 (lumped in with our HOA). Internet: P. pays $150. Gas: $35 Phone: On my family’s plan still (very blessed). Costco: P. pays $14. Amazon Prime: Mooch off a friend (again, very blessed). iCloud Storage: $0.90 All Other Subscriptions: $0 (purged these once I started to clean up my debt).
Was there an expectation for you to attend higher education? Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it? Yes, coming from a traditional Asian household, there was always an expectation that I would pursue higher education. My parents did not pressure me to pursue medical school, but there were definitely expectations from my extended family. However, contrary to everyone’s expectations, I chose construction management as my major. During my construction management courses, I was required to take accounting classes and I instantly fell in love. I genuinely enjoyed accounting in school and graduated with an accounting degree. I spent three and a half years in school while also doing summer internships, so I was able to pay for a semester of school; my parents paid for the other three years. I went to the local university and commuted from home in order to save money, but nonetheless, I am fortunate enough to have parents who invested in my education, and I am extremely grateful. I spent about three years working in accounting in many different environments, but none of them made me happy. At my last accounting job, I succumbed to burn out and was incredibly depressed that my career wasn’t “working out”. I decided to quit and take a break. That break ended up lasting three years, but it was well worth it. Now, I’ve pivoted my career to business analytics, and I am enjoying it so far.
Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money? Did your parent(s)/guardian(s) educate you about finances? Growing up, we were always a low-income family. We never took vacations, only ate at home, and the biggest expense was probably the general cost of living. So I was always keenly aware that we had no money. From that, my parents never taught me anything about finances other than “don’t spend money”. I didn’t learn about finances until I had my first office job and was making adult money. I watched a million YouTube videos to learn about personal finance. I would say I have decent knowledge on personal finance, but overall, have nothing to show for it because I blew through my savings during my three-year break, lol.
What was your first job and why did you get it? I got my first job at 17, against my parents’ will, as a bagger at the local grocery store. My parents were concerned I would lose focus from school if I had a job, but I desperately wanted autonomy from my parents and wanted to make spending decisions on my own that I wouldn’t regret, like treating myself to Starbucks. Granted, I did treat myself out a lot, so I can’t say it wasn’t all regretful. However, working retail from a young age taught me a lot about money and how hard it is to actually make money. I learned that I did not like retail and needed a cushy office job to function. So, by the time I was in college, I spent a lot of time pursuing internships. Luckily, I was able to complete three internships while I was in college which helped me pay for a semester of schooling.
Did you worry about money growing up? Yes, very much so. I was always aware of how little money we had as a family because my parents always complained about it to us. I don’t believe that’s the best way to raise kids because it puts a lot of pressure on them to essentially find a way to survive at an early age. You start to think as a kid well if I do this, then we can get money or if I don’t do this, then we can save money. It’s a lot to think about at an early age and definitely impacts the way you are once you are older.
Do you worry about money now? Yes, very much so. I wasn’t worried about it when I was on my three-year break because I was so focused on my mental health and basically surviving that I had to just forgo the thought of money. Of course, that meant I depleted my savings and dove right into credit card debt, but once the anti depressants started working, I was back to my “old” self. I was able to function again and was then concerned about my pressing finances. Luckily, I had nice parents to bail me out, but I am aware that not everyone has that.
At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself and do you have a financial safety net? I became financially responsible for myself once I moved out of my parents home at 23. At that age, my relationship with my now husband was pretty steady and we both agreed that we needed a space of our own. So without telling my parents, I packed up all my things and left. They were heartbroken and had this expectation that I would essentially live with them forever. But I set that boundary and told them that I needed space to grow. This led to many improvements in my relationship with my parents, and I don’t regret that decision at all. I know there’s always a place I can go back to, but I am also strong enough to stand on my own two feet.
Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income? If yes, please explain. No, however, my parents own their home and plan on leaving it to my brother and I once they pass. This will amount to approximately $100,000, which is the closest thing I have to an inheritance. I plan to use most of that money for their funeral expenses and potentially save any remaining. My grandparents on my dad’s side have already passed and they did not leave anything behind. My grandparents on my mother’s side plan to leave everything to my uncle. I am appreciative of anything that I will receive from my parents upon their passing. I don’t expect anything from them because they have helped me so much thus far in life.
Day One: Monday
8 a.m. — I get up and record my daily vlog. (This is something I edit every night and put together to upload onto all my social medias. I realized after a friend moved away that they didn’t really know what was going on in my life on a day-to-day basis, so I started the vlogs as a way to share that. Now, I just enjoy documenting my life. It’s been a joy sharing aspects of my life with my friends and family.) I pop my antidepressants on the way to work. I feel invigorated because it’s the beginning of the week, and the antidepressants are working overtime as I make the 20-minute commute to the office. I’m officially ready to start my week!
8:30 a.m. — I buy some yogurt, pretzels, and hummus as a morning snack from the office cafeteria. This is starting to become a routine thing. $8.10
12 p.m. — I buy lunch at the office cafeteria; Thai curry chicken. It is not very good and I don’t even finish it. Sadness. $14.06
5:30 p.m. — I clock out for the day, record a snip for my vlog, and take the 20-minute drive back home.
6 p.m. — I go to Costco to get my mom a Mother’s Day gift. She said she wanted a gift card to a restaurant from Costco because it was a good value. She’s not wrong: Girl Math is saving $20 from spending $80 to get a $100 gift card. $79.99
6:30 p.m. — Once I’m home, I help my husband P. out by feeding our cat, O. He feeds our dogs, C. and A. I give P. my leftovers from today’s lunch, but he, too, doesn’t like them. We spend the night eating Trader Joe’s frozen foods.
7 p.m. — One of our friends set up a server in a game called Palworld. We spend the rest of the night grinding out some hours in Palworld and just having some fun. I could spend hours talking about games that I play, but for the sake of this activity, I will spare the readers from the boredom and lack of relevance.
11 p.m. — I crawl into bed and unwind with some light reading on my phone. I’m currently reading a Korean novel called Trash of the Count’s Family. It’s in a genre called Izekai, where the main protagonist gets transported into a different world. It’s a fun read, but I quickly knock out.
Daily Total: $102.15
Day Two: Tuesday
8 a.m — I start the day in a similar fashion. I get up, record my daily vlog, and pop my antidepressants on the way to work.
8:30 a.m. — Another day, another morning snack. I grab two kolaches and a muffin from the office cafeteria. I wished they expensed the food here! $7.12
12 p.m. — I plow through my morning meetings and decide that I don’t need lunch today since I had a big breakfast. Grind through lunch.
4:30 p.m. — Finally ready to leave the office; snap a quick video for the vlog, then head out.
5 p.m. — Drive through Raising Canes to pick up food for P., my younger brother, and myself. Not the healthiest, but definitely the weakest hitting on my wallet. $37.31
7 p.m. — We go to the movie theater to watch Sinners with a friend. It’s a great movie with an amazing message on race. I’m in awe of the fun that I had watching the film. Would definitely recommend it to others. P. pays for the movie and movie snacks.
9 p.m. — We go to the local pub right by the movie theater to discuss the film. We chat about life and generally have a good time. P. pays for his drink and our friend’s drink. I don’t drink, so I just opt for some water.
11 p.m. — Wind down with some more Trash then promptly knock out to dream about Sinners.
Daily Total: $44.43
Day Three: Wednesday
9 a.m. — Hurray for hybrid schedules: I get to work from home today, so I wake up and immediately jump into my meetings. They last about two hours.
12 p.m. — I grind through lunch and just power through the rest of the work day. It feels not too bad because I get to hang out with my dogs while I work.
6 p.m. — I drive to the local crane game arcade that just opened up by my place! I’m really excited about this place and have been visiting it weekly for some relaxation. Get some cute trinkets! I’m going to put them on my work desk tomorrow to show off my prized possessions! $34.62
7 p.m. — P. orders dinner for the family — boba and snacks. We really enjoy boba in our household.
11 p.m. — Wind down from the day.
Daily Total: $34.62
Day Four: Thursday
8 a.m. — Back to the office, so back to my regular routine. Wake up, record the vlog, pop the antidepressants, and head out for work.
8:30 a.m. — More yogurt, pretzels, and hummus. As I am filling this out, I am wondering if this is a necessary expense or if I should just wholesale purchase yogurt, pretzels, and hummus. But there is something so nice about not having to think in the mornings. $8.10
12 p.m. — I buy the cheapest thing in the office cafeteria, which is also probably the best thing that they have: chicken tenders and fries. Totally worth it. Had enough to bring home leftovers for P. $9.73
4 p.m. — I leave the office a little early today because I have plans for the night and want to make sure I’m ready to go.
7 p.m. — Go out to eat with a friend at a local sushi spot. My cousin works at the sushi restaurant, so he discounts our meal and gives us extra helpings! So kind of him. I added a high tip, but he refused it 🙁 $41.60
8:30 p.m. — Take my friend to the local crane game arcade! Have to let another person know about my obsession with the place. Win some more cute trinkets and a bag charm to put on my work bag. My desk is probably one of the cutest in the office 🙂 $36.23
10 p.m. — Get home and am tired from spending the long day out. Immediately knock out once I get ready for bed.
Daily Total: $95.66
Day Five: Friday
9 a.m. — Wake up and jump straight into my morning meetings. They end up lasting a little longer than usual, but I don’t mind it because I’m still learning the processes.
11:30 a.m. — Convinced P. to go get a drink and snack with me at our local coffee shop (P. works from home full time, so we get to spend Wednesdays and Fridays working together). We buy two drinks and four pastries. $33.98
5 p.m. — Finish all the remaining work items that I have left and promptly clock out! It feels like a productive week and that I accomplished a lot.
7 p.m. — I do a painting activity called Fluid Bear where you mix paint and pour it onto a plastic bear to create a fluid pattern on it (I booked two classes for P. and me, and paid for them last week). We make the bears as gifts for my niece and nephew and are proud of the results — I would include a photo if I could, they turned out cuter than expected!
8:30 p.m. — We visit the in-laws and have dinner with them. We catch up on our week, how we’ve been since we last saw each other, and anything fun that we have done recently. It’s always nice to see my in-laws; they’re good people and have always been extremely welcoming. We are fortunate enough that both our families currently live in Houston, so we try to visit them on a biweekly basis.
10 p.m. — Go home and wind down from the day. I do a bit of light reading before I fall asleep.
Daily Total: $33.98
Day Six: Saturday
12 p.m. — It’s finally the weekend, so I get to sleep in! I don’t leave the house until noon, when I need to go out to get gas. It kills me, but there’s no way to get around the city other than with a car. It could honestly be worse, so I shouldn’t complain too much. $31.52
1 p.m. — P. and I stop in at a local coffee shop to get some afternoon coffees (he pays). We visit a few boutiques searching for a Mother’s Day gift for my mother-in-law, but we don’t find anything that stands out to us. We stop at a wine bar that’s near one of the boutiques and settle for a bottle of wine as a gift. It’s not an original idea, but it was one of the only things we could agree on. Overall, a pretty successful afternoon.
4 p.m. — I drop P. off at home and get ready for my Bumble BFF date. It’s hard to make friends as an adult, so I joined Bumble BFF to make some friends. Every now and then, this will manifest into an actual meetup, so I get to leave the house and meet with someone and just hang and talk. From the app, I have made at least five friends, so I would say it’s not so bad. It’s definitely still difficult and requires a lot of time and effort, but with enough dedication, you can certainly make friends off the app (this is not a sponsored ad). I will also say, it’s not for everyone.
5 p.m. — I meet my new friend at a ramen shop and we get two bowls of ramen, two appetizers, and two drinks (we split the bill evenly). We chat about ourselves and life in general. My new friend is nice and reminds me greatly of another friend, so much so that I start to miss her, so after dinner, I call said friend and ask, “Are you currently doing anything; can I come over?”, to which she replies with, “Of course!” I am extremely grateful for the people in my life. $35.02
7 p.m. — I meet up with my friend and we yap and yap and yap for about three hours straight. We catch up on life, spill some tea, discuss baby things (she recently gave birth), and share excitement over an upcoming concert that we are going to see. It’s a wonderful night, and I’m glad I’m able to see her.
11 p.m. — Drive through In-N-Out on the way home to grab my brother and me some burgers and animal-style fries (you can never go wrong with animal-style fries). I make it home and instantly knock out after eating. $26.30
Daily Total: $92.84
Day Seven: Sunday
12 p.m. — Sundays are fundays. I get up and buy seven breakfast tacos for myself, P., my friend W., and W.’s sister. Overall, to feed four people with $28 is a steal in this economy. I visit W. first thing in the afternoon and stay with her and her sister just chatting for hours on end. It may seem like I do this a lot, and I would say that I have started to go out more, but I’m making a big effort to keep in touch with my friends, especially since two of my friends moved away to NYC last year. Sometimes, I just feel a little lonely, and other times, it feels like my life is full of social interactions; it’s a balance that I’m learning to make. $28.04
4 p.m. — After we chat for a while, I head home. I have a bit of down time before our dinner plans, so I’m scrolling on the gram when I come across Kurtis Conner’s comedy tour. I buy front-row seats to the show for P. and me. A splurge for sure, but we don’t get to go to shows often, so I feel that it’s pretty worth it. $185.82
5 p.m. — P. and I meet up with some friends for dim sum. He pays for the bill and everyone zelles him for their portion. Everyone is disappointed with how the dim sum tastes, so we decide to grab another bite. We go to a pizza parlor that stays open a little later. We get pizza, root beer, and wings. It’s a wonderful time filled with chatter.
11 p.m. — We don’t get home until late, but it’s well worth it. Afterwards, I sleep off my week of activities.
Daily Total: $213.86
The Breakdown
Conclusion
“It was fun to track my spending during this diary! It also helped that I had recorded daily vlogs, so I could easily remember how certain days went. I have a tendency to forget what I do on a day-to-day basis — this happens because the day seems to go by so fast! There’s so much to do and so much that I am learning, whether it be about work or social life. I think it’s the antidepressants talking, but when I look back on my week, I feel a sense of contentment like I really did enjoy my time. I’m figuring out how to strike a balance between work and life as I navigate working full time again. Overall, I don’t have any regrets with how much I spent over the week. Although, I will be cutting back from eating at the office cafeteria because I have this itching suspicion that the food there is making my skin break out.”
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This year, July 7th will bring the juiciest part of the season to us. Uranus is entering Gemini, which is going to be a fantastic moment in which we see paradigms shift, altering the zeitgeist and the culture. Mark your calendars because this summer is about to get lit — especially as responsible Saturn, idealistic Neptune, and transformational Pluto alchemize with Uranus, bringing extreme makeovers to many aspects of our lives and to the world at large. Are you ready? Here we go…
For the first time in 84 years, Uranus is entering Gemini. Over the past seven years, “great awakener” planet Uranus has been orbiting the sign Taurus. During this transit, we’ve seen a lot of ups and downs in the stock market, in our personal relationships, and in our bank accounts. There has been a different approach to how we resource and grow food, encouraging us to have better practices. As the wild card planet moves into the air sign Gemini, it’ll give us the motivation to disrupt the world through communication. We will be cosmically encouraged to use our words to protest and assert our power, proving that the pen is indeed mightier than the sword.
Since we’ve been undergoing financial highs and lows during Uranus’s stint in Taurus, we will feel as though things are shaping up quickly when Uranus enters Gemini. We might even see an uptake in the stock market and workforce, particularly when it comes to journalism. This could be an excellent time for growth in all industries so stay open and aware of all of the opportunities that may come. Update your LinkedIn regularly and keep in touch with former colleagues. New jobs can come from these sources. Coworkers will want to give us a leg up and encouragement to become great.
The US will start its Uranus return this year, fulfilling the cycle in 2029. At that time, Uranus will align with the degree that it was at the signing of the Declaration of Independence on July 4th, 1776. This means that we will see a lot of change in the country’s foundation. It could be a time of autonomy, allowing us more power in the freedom of speech. We won’t hold back in stating our views. Our voices give us strength and resolve, so we must assert ourselves loudly. There could also be innovations in social media, smartphones could get smarter, and AI could evolve to new heights.
Interestingly enough, 78 years ago, we saw the beginning of the Cold War, which intensified relations with other countries, particularly the Soviet Union. Astrologically, this conflict is very attuned to Uranus in Gemini. Think about it: Gemini likes to chat and connect, while Uranus brings sudden change. The combination of Uranus in Gemini in the late 1940s brought a strain amongst several countries, leading to a severing of ties. Looking to the past can help us predict the future, so we may see similar situations transpire. Hopefully, we’ll use the mistakes made by precious generations as a cautionary tale that we can learn from.
The rebellion is coming when Uranus moves through spirited Gemini — so stay tuned and be cognizant of all the world events that are happening and transpiring. You may find that committing to a cause that speaks to your soul and heart gives you a reason to become a humanitarian. As long as you believe in your ideals and are impassioned by them, you’ll be able to make your visions come true. Ignite your dreams!
Important Dates:
July 7th: Uranus enters Gemini, pushing us to lean into our unique thoughts on matters and to express our opinions. Pay attention to facts rather than hearsay.
September 6th: Uranus retrograde in Gemini commences, urging us to reflect upon our choices.
November 7th: Uranus retrograde re-enters Taurus, allowing us to wrap up unfinished business from the past few years.
April 25th, 2026: Uranus moves back into Gemini again, bringing progress with it.
August 3rd, 2032: Uranus swims into Cancer for the first time in this century.
December 12th, 2032: Uranus dives back into Gemini for the last time, retracing the events from the spring and summer.
May 22nd, 2033: Uranus swims into Cancer once more… moving onward and forward.
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The start of summer means that most people are out and busy, soaking up the sun, enjoying BBQs and planning last-minute beach getaways. If you’re like us, however, you’re most likely still locked into all your favourite movies and shows, eagerly scrolling the internet for more news of upcoming cinema releases and streaming drops.
Over the last month, Hunger Games fans rejoiced as they announced that Glenn Close would be starring in the latest instalment as the cruel custodian of District 12, Drusilla, alongside Billy Porter as drug-addled stylist, Magno. For musical theatre heads, the release of the Wicked: For Good trailer had everybody buzzing with anticipation for the closing chapter of the box-office smash hit. Plus,The Materialists press tour gave us enough content to keep us smiling for weeks to come.
Still, as we head into July, we’ve got our eye on a new slate of content heading our way, with Netflix rolling out plenty of must-see dramas, documentaries and more. To discover all our favourite upcoming shows and movies coming to the platform this month, read on ahead…
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Our Netflix Star: Too Much
Moustache finger tattoos, infinity scarves and Lena Dunham’s Girls are often noted as defining moments of the 2010s. Now, Dunham is making her much-anticipated return to television, this time with a a rough around the edges romance about starting over. Taking inspiration from Dunham’s own life, the story follows Jessica (Megan Stalter), a 30-something who moves from New York to London following a devastating break up. With all the best intentions to lead a quaint English life, her plans are interrupted when she meets Felix (Will Sharpe), a messy but charming man in a pub bathroom. Packed with a talented transatlantic cast including Andrew Scott, Kit Harrington, Richard E Grant, Andrew Rannells, Jessica Alba and Emily Ratajkowski, this is a story about balancing baggage with new beginnings.
When: July 10 Watch if you like:Girls, Fleabag, Notting Hill
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Trainwreck: The Cult of American Apparel
For those paying attention to fashion in the 2010s, American Apparel was known for giving wearers serious social currency. Becoming one of the most successful US fashion brands, the disco-pant producers were a Tumblr style blogger staple, with sexually promiscuous ad campaigns making them globally famous. But as the new Netflix documentary details, the brand that so many young people wanted to work at was actually crumbling on the inside. Exposing the actions of CEO and founder Dov Charney, the doc discusses the sexual harassment claims, financial mismanagement and toxic work practices that brought about the end of American Apparel.
When: July 1 Watch if you like:White Hot: The Rise and Fall of Abercrombie & Fitch
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The Old Guard 2
If there’s one thing Charlize Theron knows how to do, it’s kick ass. Returning for a second instalment, The Old Guard 2 follows Andy (Theron) and the gang on their continuing mission to save the world. As immortals, the group have spent thousands of years trying to do good, but this time they must go up against the first of their kind, Discord (played by a sword-wielding Uma Thurman). Enlisting the help of Tuah (Henry Golding) to try and understand the mystery around their immortality, the warriors must face their biggest challenge yet.
Split into two parts, The Sandman returns for its final season with 11 new episodes. Based on the award-winning comic book series, the second instalment promises to bring the story to a fulfilling close, following Dream as he embarks on a mission to save the realm, himself and the conscious world from his past actions. Jack Gleeson (Game of Thrones), Indya Moore (Pose) and Freddie Fox (The Great) join the fantasy epic alongside the original cast, including Gwendoline Christie, Stephen Fry and Joely Richardson.
For those old enough to remember the Project X movie, it was a pop culture moment like no other. Based loosely on the plot of a real-life teenager who threw an out-of-control house party, the term ‘Project X’ subsequently entered the cultural lexicon for Tumblr teens. Now, for the first time, the real Dutch teenager who created an open Facebook event in 2012 speaks about how things went so wrong so quickly when tens of thousands of people signed up to attend. Ending in a full-blown riot and an estimated £15,000 in damages, the doc details exactly how one teenage girl from a tiny town threw the most viral party of the 2010s.
Thinking about heading into the great outdoors this summer? Well, this new Eric Bana-fronted series might have you feeling differently. Set in Yosemite National Park, this mystery thriller follows a National Parks Service agent as he attempts to enforce the law across the sprawling forests and mountainscapes. From the writer behind The Revenant and American Primeval this is a series that examines what happens when humans and the wilderness go up against each other.
When: July 17 Watch if you like:Yellowstone, 127 Hours
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Happy Gilmore 2
In 1996, Adam Sandler gifted Happy Gilmore to the world, a beloved comedy about a down-on-his-luck hockey player who turns to golf in the hopes of saving his family from bankruptcy. Now, 29 years later, Happy returns to the course, this time a father having to find money to fund his daughter’s dance school tuition. With a star-studded cast including Ben Stiller, Julie Bowen, Margaret Qualley, Bad Bunny, Eminem, Post Malone, Rory McIlroy and even Sandler’s real-life daughter, Sunny, this promises to be a sports sequel with some substance.
When: July 25 Watch if you like: Running Point, Stick, Happy Gilmore
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From vacation-ready open backs to sleek tie-necks and sculptural twists, this summer’s halters are fresher than ever. They frame the neckline beautifully, show off the shoulders, and add just the right amount of throwback charm (without veering costume-y). Whether you go for a crisp cotton mini or a breezy crochet maxi, the silhouette feels distinctive — a subtle switch-up we love alongside our go-to spaghetti straps, puff sleeves, and scooped tanks.
Great for petites and fans of a leg moment alike, halter minis keep things light and playful. From fitted bodices to tiered hems, these sweet styles are ideal for dinner dates, brunch plans, and every steamy sidewalk stroll in between.
Midi Halterneck Dresses
A midi halter strikes that just-right balance: slightly elevated, but still easy enough for everyday wear. Look for fluid skirts, subtle cut-outs, and sculpted necklines that move seamlessly from day to night with just a switch-up of accessories.
Maxi Halterneck Dresses
A halter maxi brings the drama while keeping things ultra-summery and airy. With open backs and floaty fabrics, these full-length styles are made for beachfront weddings, European getaways, and spur-of-the-moment drinks that linger past golden hour.
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While you may be hyper-focused on all the Fourth of July sales happening right now, we’re preparing for Prime Day, which starts July 8. And, as your online shopping besties, we’ve been hawkishly monitoring the vast dot-com, keeping tabs on all the early Prime deals and compiling the best finds — from beauty go-tos to travel must-haves. With years of Prime Day sales under our belts, we consider ourselves seasoned experts in distinguishing Amazon’s most cart-worthy discounts from the duds. So if you’d prefer to avoid the turbulent mosh pit of the thousands of deals, rely on our guide to the best markdowns we’re actually buying into this year.
Ahead, find everything from already-on-sale iPhone chargers and Crest Whitestrips to soon-to-be-discounted Great Jones dutch ovens and Oura rings that our own team of savvy online shoppers will be adding to cart during Prime Day.
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“After watching numerous videos across my FYP and YouTube, I’m determined to master a summer hair routine for my wavy-but-not-quite-curly hair. The missing piece of the puzzle? A good hair towel to plop and dry my strands. This extra-large design from Kitsch will be perfect.” — Lisa Dionisio, Newsletter Director
Kitsch XL Microfiber Hair Towel Wrap, $, available at Amazon
20% off De’Longhi Magnifica Start Fully Automatic Espresso Machine
“I’m a big wake-up-and-immediately-chug-coffee kind of girl (motherhood and an intense workload, I tell ya!), and I do not have the patience or desire to clean all the specialty parts of a classic espresso machine. Enter: De’Longhi’s automatic Magnifica — artisanal-style lattes and more with the press of a button.” — Laura Lajiness, Contributing Editor
De’Longhi Magnifica Start Fully Automatic Espresso Machine, $, available at Amazon
30% off The Drop Kapri Gathered Halter Dress
“I originally stumbled upon this dress when doing a deep dive into Amazon’s best summer dresses — now, it’s on sale. I love the trendy halter neckline and rum brown hue, and think it can easily be dressed up with strappy sandals and a woven bag, or dressed down with a denim jacket and slides. And since I’m heading to Hawaii in a month, this will be the perfect lightweight maxi to pack for my trip.” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
The Drop Kapri Gathered Halter Dress, $, available at Amazon
Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patch Invisible
“I’m going on the record that these are my absolute favorite, holy grail pimple patches. If I had to only use these for the rest of my acne-having days, I’d be more than happy — that’s how good they are. There are many similar, beveled designs from other brands, but none do it better than Hero Cosmetics. (My husband routinely will not notice I even have them on!) They’re already relatively affordable at under $20 for a box of 39 patches, but at their future 20% discount, they’re an absolute steal — and worth every penny.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Hero Mighty Patch Invisible+ Patch, $, available at Amazon
24% off HERJOUR Retro Oval Cat Eye Sunglasses
“Two pairs of cute sunglasses for less than $20? Please and thanks. These classic cat-eyes are simple and no frills. Plus, they’re reminiscent of a $500+ designer pair I’ve been lusting after.” — Lisa Dionisio, Newsletter Director
HERJOUR Retro Oval Cat Eye Sunglasses, $, available at Amazon
35% off Crest 3D Whitestrips Professional Effects
“I’m a Crest Whitestrip girl, regularly using them before parties and vacations for a just-went-to-the-dentist-looking smile. These Professional Effects strips make my teeth extra pearly the more I consistently use them, but they also get the job done when I’m in a pinch. (Pro tip: While this product is already on sale for Prime members, hold off until Prime Day officially kicks off for even deeper discounts on additional Crest products.)” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
Crest 3D Whitestrips Professional Effects, $, available at Amazon
Amseatec Adjustable Ergonomic Office Chair
“I’ve been looking to upgrade my living room desk setup, and Prime Day is the perfect time to strike. I’m looking for a well-cushioned faux leather office chair with a very high back, so I can recline comfortably, and this one ticks all of my boxes. I love the optic white color, which helps to brighten up some of the darker wooden furniture in my space.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
Amseatec Adjustable Office Chair, $, available at Amazon
29% off Shark FlexStyle HD430 Air Styling & Drying System
“I have long, thick hair, so you can imagine at-home blowouts are a serious chore. And yet, my natural wavy hair is not the vibe when I want to feel put-together and polished, so styling brushes have become an absolute staple. I’ve tried and enjoyed a few from other brands, but Shark has been next on my list (the power seems next-level and the aesthetic sleekness? Right up my alley).” — Laura Lajiness, Contributing Editor
Shark FlexStyle HD430 Air Styling & Drying System, $, available at Amazon
20% off FEEL2NICE Fast-Charging iPhone Chargers
“Whenever Prime Day comes around, I take stock of what I’ve been saving in my Amazon cart, then consider actual needs. An iPhone charger is an item that always seems to go missing, or one you can never have too many of throughout your home.” — Lisa Dionisio, Newsletter Director
FEEL2NICE iPhone Charger Fast Charging (2 Pack), $, available at Amazon
Ouai Thick Hair Mask
“Prime Day means stocking up on my essentials, like Ouai’s thick hair conditioning mask that I use for my weekly washes. It’s a luxurious formula for a lot less than other favorites of mine, so I don’t feel overly indulgent keeping it in regular rotation, especially when I’ll get it for 20% off.” — Laura Lajiness, Contributing Editor
19% off Rubbermaid BPA-Free Food Storage Containers
“I’m a big meal prepper and I’ve slowly been adding more glass food containers into my pantry to replace old and not-so-healthy plastic ones. However, glass is obviously more expensive, so I typically wait for sales to add more to my collection. Luckily this Rubbermaid set is on sale for nearly 20% right now.” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
“I live in a dry, arid climate, and my lips let everyone know it. Chronically flaky and dry (not to mention, I’m a lip biter) means they’re always wrecked. Fingers crossed this glossy peptide formula (which will be discounted at 20% off during Prime Day) helps restore them — and maybe prevents me from ingesting the collagen-boosting formula.” — Laura Lajiness, Contributing Editor
Paula’s Choice Pro-Collagen Peptide Gloss Lip Balm, $, available at Amazon
15% off JISULife Handheld Portable Turbo Fan
“Summer in NYC is hot and sticky, especially when walking around the subway’s sauna-like platforms. After seeing another woman on the train using a portable fan like this one, I knew it was a summer essential I needed to add to cart. With an 18-hour battery life and five speeds, this handheld fan has tons of rave reviews and is about to save me from being a sweaty mess.” — Lisa Dionisio, Newsletter Director
JISULIFE Handheld Portable Turbo Fan, $, available at Amazon
Oura Ring 4
“When I first reviewed the Oura ring two years ago, I would’ve never guessed how often people (a.k.a. my fellow yoga girlies) would come up to ask me if I liked it and thought it was worth the money. My answer is always the same: I absolutely love it. No wellness tracker — not even my Apple Watch, which I also, for the record, really love — has actually helped me achieve sounder sleep, more movement, and, perhaps most importantly, rest when my body is telling me. It’s lightweight enough that even people like me, who hate working out and sleeping in jewelry, forget that it’s on, and it holds a decent charge (years later, I still only plug in my second-edition ring three times a week at most). Oura rarely does sales, but is offering 15% off the latest model for Prime Day. So PSA: If you’ve been thinking about getting one, this is your sign to do so!” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
“This calming lavender pillow spray is part of my evening ritual to help me unwind. And since This Works’ Amazon storefront will be offering 25% off during Prime Day, it’s time for a restock. I’m planning to scoop up this travel size, so I can easily pack it for long weekends and summer vacations (I refuse to have a bad night’s sleep even in unfamiliar settings!).” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray, $, available at Amazon
Great Jones Baby Dutch Oven
“A burrata, roasted garlic, and tomato dish is what convinced me that I need a Dutch oven. This gorgeous one from Great Jones (which will be 20% off) is the perfect size for my solo cooking trials and tiny kitchen needs.” — Lisa Dionisio, Newsletter Director
Great Jones Baby Dutch Oven with Lid, $, available at Amazon
21% off Bio-Therapeutic bt-Sculpt Microcurrent Facial Wand
“After back-to-back pregnancies, my skin has been through it. But motherhood and an intense workload have me neglecting my formerly devoted skincare routine. I’m hoping a device like this will help me get back on track and up-level my results — of course, with a consistent regimen of cleansing, toning, serum-ing, and SPF-ing.” — Laura Lajiness, Contributing Editor
Bio-Therapeutic Sculpt Microcurrent Facial Lifting Wand, $, available at Amazon
Nori Press Travel Iron
“I hate traveling with a steamer, but what I hate even more are wrinkled clothes — especially when I’m trying to look cute on vacation. The Nori Press is the most compact (and stylish) travel iron I’ve seen yet, and works like a charm on a variety of fabrics, including cotton, linen, and silk (just proceed with caution, etc., etc.). I used to use a hair straightener to McGuyver my way to smoother, crease-free clothes, but Nori works so much better. Most recently, it made my Alice & Olivia wedding rehearsal dinner dress appear professionally pressed, even though it had traveled over a thousand miles in my suitcase. At 25% off during Prime Day? I’m seriously considering getting a backup in case I ever lose mine. — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Back in 2018, Bella Hadid, Hailey Bieber (then Baldwin), and Tracey Ellis Ross all appeared in the year’s hottest sneaker: the Balenciaga Triple S. The raised-platform design, which first debuted in 2017, had signaled the rise of a new era — that of the “ugly sneaker,” chunky styles with an athletic look and a more-is-more aesthetic. Think: Louis Vuitton’s Archlight sneaker (worn by Jaden Smith) and Gucci’s Rhyton. But, as the pendulum of fashion trends swings between extremes, it’s reversed course. It’s been seven years, and Hadid is now in $150 Vivaia ballet sneakers, Bieber is in Onitsuka Tigers, and plenty of other trendsetters are co-signing the rise of something more minimalist… and familiar.
When it comes to 2025 trends, the scales have tipped as shoppers (whether famous or not) are in search of a slimmer silhouette, drawing inspiration from ‘70s running shoes, ‘90s racing boots, and ‘00s ballet flats. Starting in 2022, the rise of the soccer-adjacent Adidas Samba was a bellwether that things were moving in a more low-profile direction. Today, a whole new class of styles, from designer runners from Loewe and The Row to revived athletic styles like the Puma Speedcat, Adidas Taekwondo, and the Onitsuka Tiger Mexico 66 are driving the return of the retro-leaning sneaker trend. The irony of “ugly” shoes has run its course, and what has replaced it is a desire for something simple and comfortably nostalgic.
The Return of Y2K Aesthetics
For a generation of Gen Z shoppers, embracing thrift shopping and nostalgic trends has sparked interest in sneaker silhouettes that last dominated the culture in the early aughts. There are hundreds of listings for styles like the Puma Speedcat (which launched in 1999) on Grailed. As resale popularity spikes, the brand is simultaneously relaunching its OG silhouettes, riding the wave of nostalgia and introducing iconic Puma silhouettes to a new generation of shoppers.
“Consumers are leaning more than ever into the rising Y2K aesthetic, which is why slimmer silhouettes are having such a powerful moment with a demand that just continues to grow,” says Christina Mirabelli, Puma’s director of sportstyle marketing. “Consumers have a true passion for ‘what’s old is new again,’ which is how so many of these archival slim styles are coming to the forefront.”
The Move Towards Minimalism
In the last two years, several minimalist designer styles have dominated the conversation: Most notably, Miu Miu X New Balance’s 530 SL, Louis Vuitton’s Sneakerina, Dries Van Noten’s sneaker, and Loewe’s Ballet Runner 2.0 (which followed the success of the first iteration released in 2019). The rise of these luxury label offerings — defined by streamlined silhouettes and a slim fit through the foot — has mirrored the rise of quiet luxury across the board. Despite price tags that range from just under $550 to over $1,000, Miu Miu and Dries Van Noten sneakers both made the Lyst Index’s hottest products last year alongside more affordable counterparts like the Speedcat and the Adidas SL72.
While these sneakers often come with a color palette that fits their minimalist silhouette, a slew of playful colors, patterns, and materialities are popping up as well. Dries Van Noten’s sneakers — which are almost entirely sold out in both the New York and L.A. stores — in addition to black, white, and tan colorways, are available in a bold green suede, red snakeskin leather, and a metallic pink leather. You can expect to see this juxtaposition evolve according to Ashley Ahwah, VP Adidas Originals North America: “Metallics, ponyhair, patent, and bold colors are dominating,” she explains. For 2025, it’s about “understated silhouettes with the juxtaposition of bold colors and materials.”
The Power of Sportfluence
Whether it’s via professional athletes, dancers, or race car drivers, the influence of sports on fashion is an enduring trend. Though a far cry from the satin pointe shoes worn by professional dancers, a sneaker-ballet flat hybrid has popped up as one of this year’s biggest sneaker trends. In terms of styles, Miu Miu’s Gymnasium Ballerinas, along with collaborations between Solomon and Sandy Liang and Bad Bunny and Adidas, have come to embody the look that can be tied back to nostalgia for the ‘90s and early ‘00s when styles like the Nike Air Rift first hit their stride. Often designed with a slipper silhouette and ribbon laces or straps that criss-cross the top of the foot, they couldn’t be more different from the “dad sneakers” that dominated the trend cycle for so long. The Lyst Q1 Index Report indicates that the Puma Speedcat ballet is the third buzziest product so far of 2025, with searches for ballet sneakers in general up 1300% year over year.
It’s also worth noting the rising cultural influence of other sport-inspired styles. Adidas credits the comeback of the Samba, a soccer sneaker, with helping launch a revival in other sports-adjacent trainers. “The success of Samba and soccer… has opened the appetite from our consumer to seek iterations and looks that are more low-profile,” says Ahwah.
See: the Taekwondo, which the brand relaunched last year after it first debuted in the early 2000s for sparring on the mat. As well as: Onitsuka Tiger Mexico 66, today worn by stars like Bieber and Kaia Gerber, but originally a silhouette for athletes to wear during the 1966 Olympics. Puma’s Speedcat, which was first designed in 1999 as a Formula One racing shoe, has returned with a vengeance as fandom for the sport has reached astronomical heights — securing its spot as one of the hottest products on multiple Lyst reports over the last year. Most recently, this design was spotted on Ferrari drivers Lewis Hamilton and Charles Leclerc.
While technological advances mean that these sport-inspired styles may no longer be used by professional sportspeople, their snug fit and simple profile make them ideal for off-duty outfits on days that we’re craving more than just old-school aesthetics, but also the familiarity and comfort that comes from nostalgia.
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Not to freak you out or anything, but we are officially more than halfway through 2025. Summer is firmly underway, and that means our editors are busy having fun in the sun (with our SPF slathered on) — and, of course, looking good while doing it. When it comes to summer essentials, a few things come to mind: sweat-proof makeup, sun protection (in the form of sunscreens, hats, and more), vacay-ready ‘fits and accessories, all of which figured heavily in our editors’ order histories last month. And now, we’re spilling all in our monthly favorites column.
As we do without fail, we’re presenting the best products (and general life-enhancing things) Refinery29 editors shopped and loved — all coming in under $100. The price point hits a sweet spot of quality and affordability, and as you know, we’re all for buying fewer, better things we plan to keep for years to come. Without further ado, keep clicking to peruse the most exciting purchases to blow up the group chat (and company Slack channels) from the month of June.
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HANYCONY European Travel Plug Adapter USB C
“I recently went to Marrakech and bought this power adapter to use on my trip. I know it’s nothing fancy, but as someone who studied abroad in Paris with a single adapter, being able to plug multiple devices into one felt like I was truly living in the future. This particular travel design has two USB-C ports, one USB port, and one standard US plug port — and it worked perfectly. Euro-girl summer, anyone?” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
HANYCONY European Travel Plug Adapter USB C, $, available at Amazon
Shade & Shore Packable Straw Down Brim Bucket Hat
“This was another purchase ahead of my Marrakech trip, since we were going to spend lots of time outdoors. I was coming up short in my search for a big (read: will actually shield me from the sun) but not huge sun hat, and managed to spot this one during a recent Target run. I am genuinely shook that it only cost $10 because the quality and look feel much more expensive. The black feels so chic and matches with nearly everything in my closet. I wore it almost every day that I was in Morocco, and will definitely be wearing it this summer on beach days and beyond.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Shade & Shore Packable Straw Down Brim Bucket Hat, $, available at TargetPhoto: Courtesy of Karina Hoshikawa.
Supergoop! (Re)setting Mineral Powder SPF 35
“I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I swear by this Supergoop! SPF powder for scalp protection. I burn very easily and my hair gets oily very quickly, so when I found this mineral sunscreen on TikTok over a year ago, I was sold — and I continue to wear it regularly. The translucent formula is intended for sweeping over makeup to set it (which I also do), but it works great down my middle part and around my bangs to prevent sunburn and oiliness.” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
Supergoop! (Re)setting Mineral Powder SPF 35, $, available at Supergoop!Photo: Courtesy of Victoria Montalti.
By Terry Tea To Tan Blush Powder
“I’ve been obsessed with this powder blush in the shade Spicy Song; it perfectly mimics the healthy, glowy flush I get when I’ve been walking around the city in a heatwave. The buildable pigment really packs a punch, and thanks to skincare ingredients like black tea (an antioxidant) and nourishing cranberry oil, the powder melts into my cheekbones with the most natural, soft-focus effect.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
By Terry Tea To Tan Blush Powder, $, available at Beauty BayPhoto: Courtesy of Venus Wong.
C&C California Sardines Assorted Design Appetizer Plates
“It’s a sardine girl summer y’all, and I hopped on the bandwagon quickly, buying tons of fishy kitchenware from TJ Maxx. I fell for these $7 (yes, $7!) small serving plates and recently debuted them at a backyard barbecue, where they were a hit. I love the curved edges and how each plate has its own sardine design for an extra-unique touch.” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
C&C California Sardines Assorted Design Appetizer Plates, $, available at Tj MaxxPhoto: Courtesy of Victoria Montalti.
Anyday 2-Pack (2-Cup) Glass Food Storage Set
“These glass food storage containers are made for reheating food in the microwave, as a more health-conscious and environmentally friendly alternative to plastic takeout containers — but they’re also the perfect size for cooking in my dual-drawer air fryer. The frosted glass exterior is super sturdy and helps preserve flavors while heating food evenly. I love that it can go straight from the fridge to reheating in the air fryer.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
Anyday 2-Pack (2-Cup) Glass Food Storage Set, $, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of Venus Wong.
Vera Bradley Mini Dome Cosmetic Bag
“Real ones remember the stronghold that Vera Bradley had on the girls in the mid-2000s. My middle school hallways were a rainbow of quilted paisley-and-floral motifs that were quintessentially VB. I remember begging my mom for a zip wallet, which was the gateway to getting the matching lunch box and messenger bag. It’s been years since I’ve worn the brand, but I was recently looking for a small pouch to corral lip glosses, pens, and the odd small item in my bag, and stumbled upon the label’s Mini Dome Cosmetic Bag. It’s the perfect size for carrying around in my small totes or work backpacks, and the print is easy to find, keeping my precious beauty faves protected. I scooped her up at half off, which felt like winning the lottery. As of press time, it’s still on sale — so now you can, too!” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Vera Bradley Mini Dome Cosmetic Bag, $, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of Karina Hoshikawa.
PackIt ECOFREEZE Cooler Tote
“I was gifted this cooler tote bag, and it’s become a new beach must-have for me. The inside is covered in a (surprisingly lightweight) ice pack lining, so you can throw the bag in a freezer beforehand and keep your food cool without adding bulky ice packs inside. I’ve used it for long beach days, and it consistently keeps water and perishables cold, which is a big win. Plus, the nautical stripes are the cherry on top.” — Victoria Montalti, Associate Fashion Writer
PackIt ECOFREEZE Cooler Tote, $, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of Victoria Montalti.
Susanne Kaufmann x Diptyque Lip Oil
“My makeup drawer is full of lip oils, but I’m particularly excited about Diptyque’s first foray into the category. Created in collaboration with Susanne Kaufmann, this lemon-scented formula has been a lovely pick-me-up this summer, thanks to an airy, souffle-like texture and conditioning ingredients like sea buckthorn extract (rich in vitamin E) and meadowfoam seed oil, which locks in moisture. I love putting this on first thing in the morning, followed by my usual lip liner and gloss combo.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
Diptyque x Susanne Kaufmann Lip Oil, $, available at Susanne KaufmannPhoto: Courtesy of Venus Wong.
London Rebel Evie flat jelly shoes in black glitter
“I’m leaning hard into nostalgia these days (see Vera Bradley pick below!) and have been looking for a pair of jelly sandals for summer. I’m a sucker for sparkle, and this black glitter pair by London Rebel (which I scored on sale at ASOS) is the perfect mix of cute and edgy. I will say: These are pretty flat and don’t offer much in the way of arch support. I probably wouldn’t go hiking in them, but for a cute rooftop hang or casual date, I think they’re adorable — and they come in a bunch of colors!” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
London Rebel Evie flat jelly shoes in black glitter, $, available at ASOSPhoto: Courtesy of Karina Hoshikawa.
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By now it shouldn’t come as a surprise that sexting can be great for your relationship. Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or you’re just starting something new, sending flirty, dirty messages is a great way to spice things up and keep them fresh — especially if you and your partner are long-distance. The thing is, not all of us are master sext crafters; some of us need a little inspiration when it comes to sexting ideas.
What is sexting?
Exactly what it sounds like, texting that centres on sex. Whether it’s sexual flirting, detailing sexual fantasies, or texting that’s designed to turn someone on.
It can be difficult to overcome feeling awkward, stilted, or stale when you’re trying to start (or continue) a sexting session. That’s why we turned to sex therapists Dr. Liz Powell, Vanessa Marin, and Mal Harrison for expert tips on how to bite the bullet and commit with the confidence of a sexting pro.
How to sext
“People might think, ‘I don’t know what to say’ or ‘I’m not creative,’ but you don’t have to dive in with all these kinky, dirty things,” Marin tells Refinery29. It’s true that sexting can make people uneasy, but it doesn’t have to be daunting: It can be playful and silly. And it should be fun.“Find a specific language you feel comfortable with,” Marin says. “If you’re not comfortable with being too explicit from the get-go, that’s okay — just start slow. I think the best way to get started is just by looking at examples.”
Here, experts share their favorite sexting ideas to get you going. Click through to view them and gain some sext inspo to send to a very lucky recipient.
This article was original published in August 2023 and has since been updated.
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Example: “I just had the hottest dream/fantasy about you. Want to hear it?”
Why it works: “Who hasn’t had that sext come in at the worst time? Asking for consent makes sure your partner will be as into it as you are,” Dr. Powell says. “Plus, you’ve already started a tease by telling them there’s something super hot coming!”Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Offer Up A Visual
Example: “I miss your lips on my neck.”
Why it works: This vivid example will give them a visual, and may even make the hairs on the back of their neck stand up, giving them a shiver. It’s also a great way to ease into dirty talk.
Ask A Leading Question
Example: “What’s your fantasy?”
Why it works: This seemingly simple question is actually an invitation to let your partner’s imagination run wild. It also allows you both to get vulnerable and real, while giving them an opportunity to ask for what they want.
Give A Compliment
Example: “Your ___ feels incredible.”
Why it works: A specific compliment is always better than a generic one — and your partner will love knowing that they’re good with their hands (or tongue or lips or elbows or…).
Reference A Body Part
Example: “I’m arching my back just thinking about seeing you tonight.”
Why it works: Naming a specific body part provides a level of detail that will definitely capture your partner’s attention. (More so than a generic, “I’m so excited to see you tonight.”)
Send A Request
Example: “Come keep me warm.”
Why it works: This subtle invitation makes it clear you’re ready to heat things up. Of course, this particular example is better played in the winter than the summer, but think of trying this genre of sext on for size when you can tailor it to the climate or time of day.
Be A Tease
Example: “If you could hear the sounds I’m making…”
Why it works: Teasing at all the fun you’re having will make things that much hotter for your partner, too. This kind of sext features a teasing vagueness that invites them to be curious and wonder what exactly is going on where you are.
Give Them The Control
Example: “Let me watch you touch yourself.”
Why it works: As Marin tells us, this kind of text allows you to relinquish just enough control while still being an active party in the exchange. Here, you’re handing the reins over to your partner — and the results could be mind-blowing. Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Invite Them To Think About You
Example: “When was the last time you thought about me?”
Why it works: If it’s been a while since you and your partner have met up, an open-ended question like this one can help to jog their memory. Once you’re on their mind, you can ease into discussing other activities you like to do when you’re around each other.
Be Playful
Example: “I can’t wait for you to come… home ;)”
Why it works: It’s hard to resist a text that’s playful. The one tells your partner that you miss them and it incorporates a pun. What more could you ask for?
Ask A Sexy Question
Example: “Where do you want to touch me first?”
Why it works: Asking your partner a simple — yet spicy — question can be a great way to get started. It doesn’t have to be anything particularly explicit, either. Think PG-13 to get the conversation going.
Use Visuals
Example: “I am looking SO HOT right now! Want a pic?”
Why it works: “When you’re looking down and loving what you see, why not let [your sexting partner] in on the enjoyment?” Dr. Powell says. “Plus, this builds the anticipation of just how amazing the pic will be when they get it.”Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Bring Up Something From The Past
Example: “Let’s finish what we started.”
Why it works: Have a great time the last time you were together? Consider bringing that to the front of their mind. Whether you’re referring to an interrupted tryst or asking for round two, this kind of message will remind your partner just how good your last meetup was.
Single Them Out
Example: “Only you can make me feel this good.”
Why it works: When sending a sext, try making your recipient feel one of a kind and unique. It never hurts to remind your partner that they’re special — and very talented. Throw in some specific, personal details to make things even more tailored to them.
Make Them Feel Wanted
Example: “I want you all to myself tonight.”
Why it works: Who doesn’t want to feel wanted? Your partner will love knowing they’re on your mind and you just want to spend some quality time with them as your priority.
Turn Up The Heat
Example: “I’m getting wet just thinking about you.”
Why it works: This one is a classic. Who wouldn’t love to know that the mere thought of them gets someone all hot and bothered? Remember, when in doubt: the more specific, the better.
Send A Spur Of The Moment Sext
Example: “Coming over in 5. Be ready ;)”
Why it works: This gives them just enough time to slap on some deodorant and prepare themselves for the fun to come. But even if you’re not actually on the way IRL, this example is the kind of out of the blue message that will catch them off guard and lead into a playful session of sexting (because what would you two do if you really were en route?).
Ask Them To Keep Going
Example: “Tell me more.”
Why it works: If you’ve gotten a sext that leaves you a little tongue-tied, this is a great way to keep the conversation flowing. Plus, it gives you some time to think about what you might want to say next.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Validate Your Partner
Example: “That turns me on so much.”
Why it works: Validation goes a long way in sex, and that goes for sexting, too. A more specific variation of this text is even better — it never hurts to let your partner know exactly how you feel. Although keeping it simple does the job just as well. Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Start A Brainstorming Session
Example: “Let’s try something new tonight.”
Why it works: Consider starting a spicy convo about what you’re going to do together later. The example above lets your partner know you’re feeling adventurous, but naturally you should come to the conclusion of what that entails together.
Let Them Take The Lead
Example: “Tell me the last erotic thought you had.”
Why it works: An open-ended request allows your partner to lead where the conversation goes. All you have to do is propose a question or request to get things rolling.
Tell A Dirty Pun
Example: “Will you be my alarm cock tomorrow?”
Why it works: Again, who doesn’t love a dirty joke? There’s no shortage of dirty pun lists out there on the internet. And the more you know about your recipient’s humor, the better.
Let Them Know They’re On Your Mind
Example: “Woke up so hungry for you.”
Why it works: This type of message sends a loud and clear message to your partner: They have been on your mind all day. Just the thought of someone else thinking of you is flattering. It’s up to you to tell them just how you’re thinking about them.
Send A Faux Distress Signal
Example: “So insatiable today. SOS!”
Why it works: This is a much more interesting way to let your partner know that you’re horny. And sending a playful, fake emergency message will tell them just how horny you are.
Describe A Specific Sensation
Example: “Need to feel your breath against my skin.”
Why it works: Illustrating a particular sensation will transport your sext recipient to a hot moment you shared together — and make them want to recreate it for you ASAP. And if you can’t think of something you’d like to reference from your past, consider detailing something you hope to happen.
Use An Innuendo
Example: “I’m sopping wet ;)”
Why it works: Save this example for a rainy day. A little innuendo (or, in this case, a lot) can be extremely effective, especially if it references something situational, such as the weather.
Build Anticipation
Example: “I’m too busy tonight. You can’t have me until tomorrow.”
Why it works: We ask again: Is there anything hotter than a good tease? Building anticipation via text is a great way to get a spicy convo started. Plus, the recipient will be all the more excited to see you in person the next time you meet.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Let Their Imagination Do The Work
Example: “I’ve got a surprise waiting for you.”
Why it works: This type of message almost certainly provokes a response to get the session going — who doesn’t want to find out what the “surprise” is? The key here is to let them lead the conversation in whatever direction their mind goes. You’re simply allowing their imagination to run wild.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Tell Them You Miss Them
Example: “I miss feeling you inside of me.”
Why it works: If you’re tongue-tied and looking for a way to get your sexting session started, this is a pretty good ice-breaker. In general, telling your partner you miss them — or even better, miss something specific about them — is a seamless way to get a sexting sesh started.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
React With Enthusiasm
Example: “I’m about to explode.”
Why it works: A big part of sexting? Reacting to your partner and letting them know just how much they turn you on. This idea is less of a conversation starter and more of a conversation continuer. A reaction to what your partner has been saying is a great way to keep the back-and-forth going if you’re not sure what to say next.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Just Get To The Point
Example: “Tell me what you think about when you touch yourself.”
Why it works: As far as getting started goes, this example is a great way to set the mood. If you’re looking to jump right in, there’s no need to dance around a teasing question. Instead, simply pose an erotic question or request.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Tell Them What You Want
Example: “I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.”
Why it works: It’s like they say — you can’t get what you want unless you ask for it. And it doesn’t have to be something graphically sexual, either. Just look to the example here.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Give Positive Affirmations
Example: “I love when you talk like that.”
Why it works: The cardinal rule of sexting applies here: Be responsive when your partner sexts back. There’s nothing better than when someone says you’re doing a good job, especially when that job has the potential to feel awkward.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Tell Them What You’re Doing
Example: “I’m touching myself right now thinking about you.”
Why it works: If you need a conversation starter, this one builds the fire of anticipation and can jumpstart a foreplay session. Of course, whether or not you’re actually doing the action you’re describing is totally up to you. We’re all for both active and passive sexting.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Make A Promise
Example: “I’m going to make you come so hard.”
Why it works: Let your partner know that you have a goal in mind. Take for example this text: It’s a promise that you’ll actually want to be held accountable for — and hopefully, your partner will reciprocate.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Act Dominant
Example: “I’m going to make you beg for it.”
Why it works: Seduce your partner with the promise of what’s to come, and don’t be afraid to be a bit dominant about it, even if that’s not typically the persona you outwardly portray. Sexting is a space to explore things and embrace new facets of yourself virtually, if you so desire.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Recall A Shared Experience
Example: “Remember the time we did _______?”
Why it works: If you’re nervous about how to get a sexting session started, this type of text will clue your partner in on your intentions without being too specific. It’s not too “I’m sending you a sext,” but it definitely leans in that direction. Illustrated by: Abbie Winters.
Make Them Feel Good
Example: “Your body looks incredible.”
Why it works: A big part of sex is making your partner feel amazing, so if you’re not physically there, you can always kick things off by paying them a sexy compliment.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Give Them A Mental Image
Example: “I just got out of the shower.”
Why it works: You don’t have to be an award-winning fiction writer to paint a picture with words when it comes to sexting. Simply offer up a mental image that your partner won’t be able to get out of their head.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Build A Sense Of Excitement
Example: “I’m getting so antsy just thinking about seeing you later.”
Why it works: If you’re looking for a sexting ice-breaker, this is it. It’s simple, yet effective in building anticipation, making it a great starter. Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Use A What-If Scenario
Example: “It’s too bad you’re not here right now.”
Why it works: This type of message is the perfect segue into describing (in as much detail as you like) what would be happening if your partner were there right now.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Be Straightforward
Example: “I want you / I need you.”
Why it works: It’s simple and direct without being explicit, leaving room for you to elaborate on exactly why you want/need your partner. Or why they want/need you right now. Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Give A Command
Example: “Get over here right now.”
Why it works: Instead of requesting something, consider “commanding” your partner to do something over text. It gives your message a sense of urgency. This example, in particular, conveys all of your “need-you-now” passion in just five words.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Tell Them How Much You Want Them
Example: “I can’t get enough of you.”
Why it works: This text tells your partner just how much you want them, without getting too specific. It’s a great one if you’re shy or aren’t comfortable being overtly sexual over text.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Ask An “And Then What?” Question
Example: “What else will you do to me?”
Why it works: It’s playful, it’s teasing, and it encourages your partner to keep going. If you’re feeling major writer’s block mid-session, this is the one for you. When in doubt, ask them to elaborate.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Invoke A Steamy Memory
Example: “I can’t get last night out of my mind.”
Why it works: Recalling spicy memories is a foolproof way to get the fire going again. You don’t even have to do too much thinking or work here. The past experience has all of the juicy details you could need.
Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Be Explicit
Example: “Your clothes are coming off the second you get through the door.”
Why it works: It’s clear, direct, and authoritative. By explicit, we don’t necessarily mean graphic; we just mean straightforward. Although by all means if that’s your style, go for it.Illustrated by: Abbie Winters
Introduce Something New
Example: “I have a new toy we can play with.”
Why it works: This message tells your partner that you’re in a playful mood and excited to try something out together. Adding toys to your sex life is an instant conversation starter.
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