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Memorial Day Sales Have Arrived Early — These Are The Best
Memorial Day is quickly approaching, but the sales are already here. Many of our favorite brands and retailers have launched early MDW deals, and we’ve done the digging so you can shop stress-free.
Whether you’re in the market for new summer sandals, a trendy bubble-hem dress or big-ticket items like designer fashion, luxury beauty, or top-rated mattresses, now’s the time to make those purchases for less (and enjoy the long weekend relaxing instead of frantically scrolling).
Read on for your one-stop guide to every worthwhile discount code and markdown from brands like Abercrombie & Fitch and Nordstrom to Wayfair, and more. We’ll be updating this list as new deals go live — so fill your virtual cart with summer staples while they’re at their lowest.
Best Early Memorial Day Sale Quick Links
Abercrombie & Fitch: 30% off swim and shorts, and 20% off everything else (live)
Adidas: 20% off gift cards (live)
Ann Taylor: $50 off every $100 spent (live)
Anthropologie: Up to 30% off candles, beauty, and more (live)
Avocado: Up to 20% off organic mattresses
Bellesa: Up to 50% off and a free vibe on $79+ purchases (live)
Baublebar: 20% off sitewide, plus shop $10 bestselling bracelets (live)
Bloomingdale’s: Up to 25% off when you spend more (live)
Calpak: 15% off sitewide, and up to 60% off select styles
Castlery: Save up to $500 sitewide when you sign up (live)
Cozy Earth: Up to 35% off sitewide (live)
Cupshe: Between 10% and 20% off the more you buy
Dôen: Up to 50% off select styles when you enter your email (live)
Dolce Vita: 20% off sitewide
DSW: Free weekender bag with $75+ purchase with code NAVY (live)
Essentia: 25% off sitewide and get a free gift with a mattress purchase
Everlane: 25% off linen styles (live)
Gap: 40% off sitewide (live)
Great Jones: 25% off sitewide with some exclusions
HigherDose: 20% off bundles and 20% off $500+ orders with code HOLIDOSE (live)
Home Depot: Up to 50% off furniture, decor, and more (live)
JCPenney: Up to 50% off doorbusters
J.Crew: Up to 50% off select styles (live)
Lands’ End: 50% off swim and 40% off everything else with code LOWTIDE (live)
Lelo: Up to 50% off and get a free gift (live)
Lovehoney: Up to 50% off select toys, lingerie, and bondage (live)
Lo & Sons: Up to 40% off select styles (live)
Madewell: 20% off bags and accessories with code SPRING20 (live)
Made In: 25% off select cookware
Masterclass: 50% off your first subscription year (live)
MeUndies: 50% off sitewide
Milk Makeup: 30% off select products
Nectar: Up to 50% off mattresses and 66% off bundles (live)
Nordstrom: 15% off fragrances with some exclusions (live)
Nordstrom Rack: Up to 75% off new markdowns (live)
Nori: 25% off sitewide
Our Place: Up to 30% off sitewide (live)
Parachute: 25% off sitewide, plus 30% off all sheet, bedding, and bath bundles
Parade: BOGO 50% off all swim
PinkCherry: Up to 80% off clearance and 40% off sitewide (live)
Purple: Save up to $700 off select mattresses and bases (live)
Raymour & Flanigan: Up to 30% sitewide
Revolve: Up to 65% off select styles (live)
Ruggable: 20% off sitewide with some exclusions, with code MEMDAY
Saatva: Save up to $600 off with select mattress purchases (live)
Saks Fifth Avenue: Spend more on jewelry purchases to earn a $75-$3,750 gift card with code JEWELGCSF (live)
Saks Off 5th: Up to 70% off select jewelry (live)
Sephora: Up to 50% off haircare (live)
Shopbop: 20% off beauty with code BEAUTY20 (live)
Showpo: 30% off select styles
Skims: Up to 50% off new sale styles (live)
Spanx: Up to 35% off select styles (live)
Sunday Citizen: 20% off gift cards (live)
Sundays: Up to 30% off sitewide
Tempur-Pedic: Save up to $500 on select mattresses and get free accessories (live)
True Botanicals: Free full-size Body Butter with $150+ orders
Uniqlo: Shop Mother’s Day deals (live)
Wayfair: Up to 60% off all things bedroom (live)
Womanizer: Up to 50% off and get a free toy on $199+ orders (live)
Best Memorial Day Fashion Sales
Abercrombie & Fitch Sale
From now through May 12, take 30% off swim and shorts, 20% off almost everything else, and an extra 15% off with stackable code SHORTSAF.
Adidas Sale
For a limited time, take 20% off gift card purchases.
Ann Taylor Sale
From now through May 11, take $50 off every $100 spent, with some exclusions.
Baublebar Sale
From now through May 11, take 20% off sitewide, plus shop $10 bestselling bracelets.
Bloomingdale’s Sale
From now through May 11, take 15% off $100-$199 purchases, 20% off $200-$399 purchases, and 25% off $400+ purchases.
Calpak Sale
Starting May 16, take 15% off sitewide and up to 60% off select styles.
Cozy Earth Sale
During the Mother’s Day sale, take up to 35% off sitewide.
Cupshe Sale
Starting May 23, take an extra 10% off two pieces, 15% off four pieces, or 20% off 6 pieces sitewide.
Dôen Sale
For a limited time, get access and take up to 50% off select styles when you enter your email.
Dolce Vita Sale
Starting May 20, take 20% off sitewide.
DSW Sale
From now through May 18, get a free weekender bag with a $75+ purchase with code NAVY.
Everlane Sale
From now through May 11, take 25% off select linen styles.
Gap Sale
From now through May 15, take 40% off sitewide (with some exclusions).
JCPenney Sale
For a limited time, take up to 50% off “doorbusters”.
J.Crew Sale
From now through May 15, take up to 50% off select “long weekend” styles.
Lands’ End Sale
From now through May 12, take 50% off swim and 40% off almost everything else with code LOWTIDE.
Lo & Sons Sale
For a limited time, take up to 40% off select styles.
Madewell Sale
From now through May 12, take 20% off select bags and accessories with code SPRING20.
MeUndies Sale
Starting May 12, take 50% off sitewide.
Nordstrom Rack
For a limited time, take up to 75% off new markdowns.
Parade Sale
Starting May 22, shop BOGO 50% off deals on all swim.
Revolve Sale
For a limited time, take up to 65% off select styles.
Saks Fifth Avenue Sale
From now through May 11, spend between $500 and $25,000 on jewelry purchases to earn a $75 – $3,750 gift card with code JEWELGCSF.
Saks Off 5th Sale
For a limited time, take up to 70% off select jewelry, plus an extra 10% off at checkout.
Showpo Sale
Starting May 23, take 30% off select styles.
Skims Sale
For a limited time, take up to 50% off new sale styles.
Spanx Sale
From now through May 13, take up to 35% off select styles.
Uniqlo Sale
For a limited time, shop select Mother’s Day deals.
Best Memorial Day Beauty Sales
HigherDose Sale
For a limited time, take 20% off bundles and 20% off $500+ orders (plus get a free HighDration Kit gift) with code HOLIDOSE.
Milk Makeup Sale
Starting May 22, take 30% off Kush Mascara, Rise Mascara, and Electric Glossy Lip Plumper.
Nordstrom Sale
From now through May 11, take 15% off select fragrances.
Sephora Sale
From now through May 10, take up to 50% off select haircare.
Shopbop Sale
Through May 9, take 20% off select beauty with code BEAUTY20.
True Botanicals Sale
Starting May 22, get a free full-size Body Butter with $150+ orders.
Best Memorial Day Home & Furniture Sales
Anthropologie Sale
For a limited time, take up to 30% off beauty and candles, plus select furniture and decor.
Great Jones Sale
Starting May 19, take 25% off sitewide (with some exclusions).
Home Depot Sale
From now through May 14, take up to 50% off select furniture, decor, and more.
Made In Sale
Starting May 16, take 25% off select cookware.
Masterclass Sale
From now through May 11, take 50% off your first subscription year.
Nori Sale
Starting May 19, take 25% off sitewide.
Our Place Sale
For a limited time, take up to 30% off sitewide.
Raymour & Flanigan Sale
Starting May 13, take up to 30% sitewide.
Ruggable Sale
Starting May 19, take 20% off sitewide (with some exclusions) with code MEMDAY.
Sunday Citizen Sale
For a limited time, take 20% off gift card purchases.
Sundays Sale
Starting May 15, take up to 30% off sitewide.
Wayfair Sale
From now through May 13, take up to 60% off all things bedroom, including furniture.
Best Memorial Day Mattress & Bedding Sales
Avocado Sale
Starting May 19, take up to 20% off organic mattresses.
Castlery Sale
From now through May 11, save up to $500 sitewide when you sign up. Plus, get an extra $70 off $1,500+ orders with code MDAYEA25.
Essentia Sale:
Starting May 15, take 25% off sitewide, plus get a free gift with every mattress purchase.
Nectar Sale
From now through May 10, take up to 50% off mattresses and 66% off bundles.
Parachute Sale
Starting May 19, take 25% off sitewide, plus 30% off all sheet, bedding, and bath bundles.
Purple Sale
For a limited time, save up to $700 off select mattresses and bases.
Saatva Sale
From now through May 13, save up to $600 on select mattress purchases.
Tempur-Pedic Sale
From now through June 3, save up to $500 on select mattresses. Plus, through May 12, get $300 worth of free accessories on select mattress purchases.
Best Memorial Day Sex Toy Sales
Bellesa Sale
During May, take up to 50% off sitewide, and get a free WhisperVibe on $79+ purchases with code FREEWHISPER.
Lelo Sale
During May, take up to 50% off and get a free Sona 2 Travel Vibe with $199+ orders.
Lovehoney Sale
For a limited time, take up to 50% off select toys, lingerie, and bondage.
PinkCherry Sale
From now through May 12, take up to 80% off clearance and 40% off sitewide.
Womanizer Sale
For a limited time, take up to 50% off select products, and get a free Womanizer Toy on $199+ orders.
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Found: Chic & Comfy Amazon Travel Outfit Ideas For Your Next Trip
Whether we’re traveling by plane, train, or car, the goal is simple: get from point A to B safely, and ideally in comfort. While the former isn’t always up to us, the latter is — and it starts with the right clothes.
The ideal travel outfit checks a few key boxes. It should be loose enough to move in (or offer supportive compression), and made from breathable, durable fabric — especially on flights where cabin temps can fluctuate. Think travel pants, compression socks, and the like.
And perhaps most importantly, a great travel outfit should make you feel confident while looking put-together. So if you are in the market for stylish, affordable pieces for your next getaway, you’ve arrived at your shopping destination.
We’ve rounded up the best travel outfits on Amazon — chic, budget-friendly, and ready to pair with your go-to travel shoes. Read on for top-rated picks to help you arrive in style.
Best Travel Pants
There’s a lot of movement while in transit, so wear something that can handle walking, running, or even squatting. A wide-leg silhouette offers freedom to move without sacrificing polish. When in doubt, go for denim joggers with a stretchy waistband. Bonus points for pockets — ideally zippered or with flaps to keep valuables secure.
Best Travel Shorts
If you’re wearing shorts for summer travel, skip fitted waistbands and fussy buttons. Elastic styles are ideal for long stretches of sitting. Classic cotton works, but cargo and biker shorts with longer inseams and extra pockets are even better. A skort with hidden storage, like the one above, adds a stylish, functional twist.
Best Matching Sweatsuits For Travel
A matching sweatsuit is the next best thing to PJs when traveling — a more polished sibling of sleepwear that’s easy to style on the go. This relaxed set can be worn together or mixed and matched, making it a versatile staple for any travel capsule wardrobe.
Best Travel Jackets
Packing light is key for longer trips, which is why a “shacket” — the heroic shirt-jacket hybrid — makes an ideal travel layer. Wear it as a top or outerwear, and stash it easily when not in use. It’s lightweight enough to tie around your waist or drape over your shoulders, adding just the right touch in transit.
Best Sweatshirts For Travel
Few things match the ease and versatility of a great sweatshirt. Pair it with leggings or bike shorts for a low-key look, or dress it up slightly with jeans and sneakers. Half-zips are especially travel-friendly — zip up when it’s cold, unzip to cool down.
Best Compression Socks For Travel
Long trips can take a toll on your legs and feet, especially in the air. Compression socks help reduce swelling and muscle cramps by promoting circulation. This three-pack is a favorite among Amazon shoppers, with hundreds of 5-star reviews praising the ankle support and easy-on fit.
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Does Tatcha’s $64 Sunscreen Live Up To The Hype?
Tatcha makes some of the most luxurious skincare in my cabinet, but when it comes to daily essentials, nothing is more important than sunscreen. Mineral formulas are usually my go-to (I’m acne-prone and find they tend to break me out less than their chemical counterparts), and Tatcha’s The Silk Sunscreen is among my latest favorites.
My introduction to the brand’s sunscreens came via the Silken Pore Perfecting Sunscreen SPF 35 — the one in the blue tube — which has a creamier, putty-like texture and chemical filters at play. I liked it, sure, but craved something lighter for year-round wear. Summer’s just around the corner, and my oily complexion struggles with heavier formulas (although to be clear, I’ll take a few zits over UV damage any day).
Enter, The Silk Sunscreen. It reminds me of those from my favorite Japanese brands (Tatcha formulates several products in Japan, though this is not one of them), which are fluid-thin in consistency and absorb instantly. In addition to zinc oxide, the formula features silk extract (yes, really — it’s naturally rich in amino acids), niacinamide (my go-to for pore-clarifying and brightening), and squalane for moisture and barrier support. (It recently got a packaging upgrade and now joins Tatcha’s family of Silk Serum, Silk Cream, and Silk Canvas primer. And while the formula itself hasn’t changed, it’s still a popular (if not a little divisive — more on that later) pick among high-end SPF.
The Silk Sunscreen SPF 50, $64
A common pain point with mineral sunscreens is that the filters (usually zinc or titanium oxide) often leave a chalky white cast, especially on darker skin tones. I have medium olive skin, and found that the Silk Sunscreen blended in impressively well without a trace. However, it doesn’t work as seamlessly for everyone. Content creator and cosmetic chemist Esther Olu posted a viral review showing the product leaving a ghostly pallor on her skin. (Tatcha, please make a darker tinted version!)
Now for the big, expensive elephant in the room: this stuff is pricey — admittedly, too pricey at $64 for 1.7 fluid ounces. Still, it’s one of the most luxurious sunscreens I’ve ever used, and I can’t lie: I genuinely love it. If you’re a Tatcha stan or have bougie taste in sunscreen, it’s definitely worth trying or gifting. The texture and finish feel incredible, — soft and diffused with oil control — and it layers flawlessly under makeup. (My everyday routine is a sheer skin tint and cream blush, and this sunscreen helps both wear longer.) I legitimately look forward to using it every day, and it’s like experts say: The best sunscreen is the one you’ll actually want to wear.
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Jelly Nails & Neon Brights: 11 Wearable Nail Trends To Usher In Summer
The beauty of this year’s nail trends is that they work regardless of the weather. Take the versatile “no-makeup” makeup manicure, shimmering pixie dust nails or chrome French tips, for example, all of which have proven timeless. And while minimalist manicures have ruled thanks to their classic color palettes, summer always brings bolder, head-turning nail looks.
Whether you love a pared-back Californian beach vibe or a heatwave-worthy riot of brights, this summer’s hottest nail trends are undeniably fun. Ahead, we caught up with our favorite nail experts and top manicurists to bring you their predictions for 11 of the very best summer nail trends to try once the sunshine hits.
Icy Blue
Pastel hues are a staple for summer, but they’re about to get even cooler. “Inspired by ocean hues and breezy holiday vibes, pale icy blue is a contemporary color choice for summer 2025,” says session manicurist Ami Streets. While blue might sound bold, it’s surprisingly fresh and subtle when worn all over like this color block manicure by manicurist Rayhana Osman. Streets recommends Chanel Le Vernis Nail Color in 125 Muse, $33, as “a beautiful powder blue that’s perfect for summer.”
Jelly Nails
Originating in Korea and Japan, the jelly nail trend has been slowly emerging as one to watch — and it recently exploded on social media when Hailey Bieber stepped out in her own jelly manicure at Coachella this year. Defined by its slightly translucent finish and playful color palette (often combined with 3D details), jelly nails are fun and fresh. We love this pink-toned marble set by Paris-based nail artist @camillegdzle58.
Whipped Vanilla
For the minimalists among us, manicurist and Bio Sculpture top tech Julia Diogo predicts there will still be a space for nudes this summer: “A creamy, whipped vanilla is perfect for summer as it gives off the most amazing sunset hues in certain lights while still being neutral,” she explains. Her color pick? Bio Sculpture’s Vanilla Skyline, $14.50, as seen in this chic set by manicurist Amy Burvill.
Polka Dots
Micro nail art will continue to be hugely popular for summer, and session and celebrity manicurist Sophia Stylianou thinks that polka dots will be everywhere. “Small polka dots are a great way to begin adding more playful color to your manicure,” she explains. This set by Studio Bloom takes two breakout shades of the year — butter yellow and mocha mousse — and elevates them for the season ahead with a dotty design.
Avocado Tips
Green nails took off in spring and will continue to do so, but it’s avocado in particular that nail artist Carmelina (aka @hicarmelina) is most excited by. “Avocado green, especially when used for French tips, has that fresh ‘cool-girl’ twist and works perfectly with sun-kissed skin,” she explains. Recreate this double French look by digital creator Mateja Novakovic with Mancurist’s Nail Polish in Sweet Pea, $14.
British Manicure
Bookmark the British manicure as one you’ll be seeing everywhere this summer. “It’s a modern, more natural take on the classic French manicure,” explains Rebecca Crawforth, founder of nail tools brand Navy Professional. “Soft, clean and effortlessly polished, it’s about sheer, healthy-looking nails with a subtle tip.” Recreate this beautifully simple nail look by Lucy Rebecca with a coat of sheer pink polish like Essie’s Nail Polish in Mademoiselle, $10.
Beach Vibes
Coastal accents and beachy vibes make for a fresh and breezy option for summer. “I’ve noticed a huge increase in requests for tiny nail art and 3D detail, like tiny seashells and sea creatures, which are accents you can’t go wrong with,” says Carmelina. Nail tech Hannah Leong‘s starfish set combines hand-painted details with powder blue tips and a beautiful shell texture.
Pastel Ombré
Color blending techniques like marbling, gradient, and aura nails are ideal for summer, but Streets has ombré bookmarked as the hottest option. “Effortlessly blending pastel shades in a soft ombré gradient creates a delicate sun-kissed effect that feels light, airy, and totally on-trend,” says Streets. Nail creator Anahi Victoria uses a blend of sunset-inspired shades for this dreamy look.
Fluoro Brights
While neon hues won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, there’s something about a Day-Glo manicure that truly marks the arrival of sunshine season. If you’re not sure about a block color, go for a micro French tip in a brighter-than-bright shade, but if you want to make a statement, then a fluoro green (like Julia Diogo’s kiwi manicure) ticks all the boxes. Recreate it with Sally Hansen’s Insta-Dri Syrup Nail Polish in The Drizz, $7.99.
Chrome Appeal
While metallics traditionally tend to dominate as a fall and winter trend, Diogo predicts they will translate well to summer nail looks, too: “I love to keep things micro when it comes to nail art, so touches of chrome are nice for a minimal yet summer-focused look,” she explains. We’ll be rushing to recreate this pastel and chrome combination by N’DAO Shoreditch at our next trip to the salon.
Butter Yellow
Last but by no means least, this year’s hottest nail color — butter yellow — will continue to be on everyone’s nails for summer. Streets rates it for its “soft, chic, and effortlessly fresh” finish. It plays nicely with a multitude of nail art designs, too. This one by Laktalk nail salon screams summer with its mermaid textures and shell embellishments.
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The Best Summer Sandals That Hit Every Style Note
There’s no shortage of summer sandals out there — but this season, the best pairs are pulling double duty: delivering on comfort and style, with just enough personality to make even your most minimal outfit feel considered. We’re talking chunky platform sandals that add height without the pain, strappy sandals with sculptural details, and upgraded flip-flops crafted from leather instead of foam.
And ICYMI, it’s peak fisherman sandal season — and we’re seeing plenty of modern riffs on the closed-toe classic, from woven leather to jelly styles. Hiking sandals are going strong, too, with rugged soles and utilitarian straps that bring a cool, functional edge to softer summer looks. There are also more playful takes emerging this year — think high-shine metallics, bold color pops, and contrast against grounded, earthy neutrals. And then there are slides — forever the MVPs of summer — delivering that unmatched mix of nonchalant chicness, spontaneous errand-readiness, and “I just threw these on” energy.
So whether you’re heading to a rooftop happy hour, walking upwards of 10 city blocks to meet a friend, or just looking for a fresh pair to wear on repeat, we’ve rounded up the best summer sandals to slip into now.
Platform Sandals
Platform shoes continue to be a summer-favorite style, being both height boosters and a generally comfortable alternative to heels. (Snaps for how chunky soles provide cushioning between you and the hard floor or sidewalk.) This season, we’re seeing platform sandals in sleek ’90s minimalist shapes and playful finishes, from metallic and pastel leather to woven patterns.
Flip-flops
Your throwback flip-flops just got a glow-up. While the classic silhouette remains, everything else has leveled up — smooth leather straps, squared-off soles, and vibrant hues make these feel incredibly considered rather than an afterthought. We’re especially loving the sleek, sculptural hardware finishes that give them a dressed-up edge — the kind of flip-flops you can wear to dinner or even a summer wedding.
Hiking Sandals
Once reserved for the trail, hiking sandals have entered their fashion era. With cushy footbeds, rugged soles, and utilitarian straps, they’re equal parts practical and cool. This season’s versions come in unexpected finishes — ombré webbing, metallic accents, bold colorblocking — making them feel less camp counselor, more street-style ready.
Strappy Sandals
This season’s strappy sandals lean minimalist — think barely-there soles, fine leather straps, and sculptural toe loops that feel simple but intentional. Many are beautifully crafted in soft leather, with some styles even edging into gladiator sandal territory with ankle ties and delicate lace-ups. They’re the ultimate nonchalant finish to summer’s airy dresses, breathable tailoring, and jorts-on-the-weekend energy.
Slides
Slides are summer’s ultimate throw-on-and-go sandal — unfussy, comfortable, and, when crafted from leather or suede, quietly polished. This season’s best pairs play with texture and silhouette: think minimalist mesh, oversized buckles, and vibrant tones from cherry red to butter yellow. They’re the kind of sandals that make even a tank-and-shorts outfit feel styled — ideal for slow weekends, spontaneous errands, or any day you want to look low-key elevated.
Fisherman Sandals
One of the biggest closed-toe sandal trends is the fisherman sandal, perfect for stretching time between pedicures. They strike a charming balance between a sandal and a ballet flat, offering just enough coverage with plenty of airflow. Go classic with a neutral leather pair, or try a braided silhouette for added texture and interest.
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A Week In San Francisco On A $449,000 Household Income
Welcome to Money Diaries where we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. We’re asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we’re tracking every last dollar.
Today: an advertising manager who has a $449,000 household income and who spends some of her money this week on two parking tickets.
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Occupation: Manager
Industry: Advertising
Age: 34
Location: San Francisco
Salary: $221,000 ($184,000 base, ~$37,000 bonus paid out quarterly based on achievement to a team revenue goal).
Joint income: My husband, P., currently makes $228,000, so our joint income is $449,000. He just started a new job after two and a half years of unstable employment (due to two layoffs, a brief midlife crisis, and a terrible job market) and this is the highest he’s ever earned. We have separate finances and mostly split expenses down the middle (as long as we’re in the same ballpark salary-wise; I have been covering more in the past few years, and he did the same when he out-earned me in the past). Controversial, but it works for us.
Assets: Checking: $500; savings: $6,500; HYSA: $23,000; investment account: $80,000; Roth 401(k): $275,000; backdoor Roth IRA: $38,000; vested company stock: ~$2,000; unvested company stock: ~$18,000; car worth: ~$26,000.
Debt: Car loan: $18,000; credit card balance: $4,000.
Paycheck Amount (2x/month): $3,000
Pronouns: She/her
Monthly Expenses
Housing Costs: $1,572 — my half of a rented two-bedroom that I share with J.
Loan Payments: $400 (car payment).
Car Insurance: $172
Peloton: $44
Phone: $40, paid to my parents (still on the family plan). Pandora/Splitwise/iCloud: $15
Health Insurance: $180 (this is including J.’s; I’ve been covering this while he’s been unemployed and he hasn’t switched to his company’s plan yet).
401(k) Contribution: $2,000 (this is high because I like to max it out early).
Charitables: $100 to my (nonprofit) choir; $50 to National Network of Abortion Funds; ~$50-$100 to one-off causes.
Cleaners: $250 (twice a month; my half).
Streaming Services: $30 (my half).
Spotify: $8 (my half).
Utilities: ~$80 (my half).
CSA: $60 (my half).
Was there an expectation for you to attend higher education? Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it?
Not going to college was not an option in my family, and my parents fully paid for my tuition at a liberal arts school. It was a huge privilege that I didn’t fully understand until I was an adult.
Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money? Did your parent(s)/guardian(s) educate you about finances?
Money was a pretty taboo topic growing up. I didn’t get much of a financial education beyond not putting things on credit cards.
What was your first job and why did you get it?
I babysat and nannied for neighborhood kids starting when I was 13. My first paycheck jobs were working at Limited Too (RIP) and as a receptionist for my dad’s small business. I got them for spending and gas money.
Did you worry about money growing up?
Not at all. I grew up solidly upper middle class and always had everything I needed, went to private school, participated in sports and extracurriculars, and went on one or two trips a year. My parents both got more successful in their careers over time (moreso for my mom) and by the time I was in late high school and in college they were decently wealthy.
Do you worry about money now?
Less than I used to. I was financially unstable until I started at my current company and nearly tripled my salary six years ago, and now I feel good about where I’m at. Getting through a tough couple years with J.’s job situation has weirdly made me more confident financially, though it was very stressful at the time. My worries these days are more about retirement savings and whether I’ll ever be able to buy a house in my very HCOL area than being destitute.
At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself and do you have a financial safety net?
I started paying my own bills after graduating from college at 21, paying for health insurance at 26, and finally, my own phone bill at 30. I am very lucky to have both my parents and my in-laws as a financial safety net.
Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income? If yes, please explain.
My parents gave me $30,000 following the sale of my dad’s business, paid for my wedding, gave me $3,000 to help set me up after I graduated college, and covered half my rent for three months ($4,000) so I could afford to break up with a live-in ex. I have inherited $12,000 total from extended family members who’ve passed away.
Day One: Sunday
9:30 a.m. — I wake up naturally and see that I have slept for 12 hours. Sheesh! I did a long trail run yesterday that had me questioning all my life choices, and my body clearly needed some extra rest. Surprised that my dog, T., didn’t wake me up, too — she usually starts bugging for her morning walk by 8 a.m. at the latest. I get up and check my phone and see that Daylight Savings happened overnight and all becomes clear (though 11 hours is still a lot of sleep). Take T. outside and feed her.
11 a.m. — I make coffee and order a Mediterranean chicken and rice bowl for brunch ($33), then walk to Trader Joe’s for the weekly shop. I buy fresh flowers, thyme, rosemary, cilantro, scallions, milk, Kerrygold butter (this is lifestyle creep), kimchi, a chicken, shallots, lemons, limes, bone broth, eggs, coconut milk, chickpeas, canned tomatoes, cheddar, coffee beans, non-alcoholic beer, and several random chocolate bars ($152). $185
1 p.m. — I get a kimchi and pork shoulder stew going on the stove, then take T. for her lunchtime walk. When I get back I have to move my car, so I go to the car wash while I’m out. This was long overdue and she’s so shiny now! $16.00
4 p.m. — I walk T. again and then practice some choir songs for an hour or so. Sorry neighbors. Then I reluctantly do a 45-minute Peloton spin class and 10 minutes of abs. I’m in the early stages of training for a 50-mile ultramarathon (my first, I am terrified) and part of the training is doing a workout (eventually a run, but at this point biking or hiking) the day after the weekly long run to get used to effort on tired legs. My legs are indeed tired.
7 p.m. — P. gets home from a weekend out of town and we eat the stew. It was a new recipe for me and it turns out pretty tasty but not worth the effort — there was a good bit of prep at the beginning but it turned out kind of bland with an unappetizing texture, so I don’t think I’ll make it again. I have some of the TJ’s chocolate for dessert while we watch the most recent episode of Severance, and I go to bed around 10 p.m.
Daily Total: $201
Day Two: Monday
8 a.m. — I wake up to my alarm (I bought a Loftie alarm a year ago to get my phone out of the bedroom and I love it) and get up to walk and feed T. I do my morning skincare (Caudalie salicylic acid toner, SkinCeuticals Phloretin CF Vitamin C serum, Kiehl’s lotion) and put on a Beyond Yoga spacedye set (I wear these pretty much every day) and a sweatshirt. Make coffee, a piece of buttered toast, and a couple of mandarin oranges for breakfast and log on to work at 9 a.m.
12 p.m. — It’s a pretty quiet work day with only one meeting, which is a nice way to ease into the week. I heat up leftover stew for lunch, then take T. for a walk.
5 p.m. — I log off and start prepping dinner (roast chicken, gravy, mashed potatoes, and a beet salad) while listening to one of my fave podcasts, Las Culturistas. They do a segment called “I Don’t Think So Honey”, where they each do a one-minute improv rant about something that’s bugging them, and I think about what mine would be today. I Don’t Think So Honey: beets. There are too many of you in my CSA boxes and I’m sick of you and there are only so many beet/orange/goat cheese salads I can take. Please drop your best beet recipes in the comments.
8 p.m. — I do the NYT crossword and read Severance fan theories on Reddit while P. cleans up. We start the new season of Drive to Survive. I’m not a reality TV person or a car person, but this show fascinates me — I love the very niche rich car boy drama.
Daily Total: $0
Day Three: Tuesday
7:30 a.m. — Tuesday is always a busy day. I’m booked solid with meetings from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m., so I log on at 8 a.m. to get some work done beforehand. I eat leftover chicken and gravy over brown rice for breakfast while I work. Chicken for breakfast twice already this week… The heart wants what it wants.
1 p.m. — Done with meetings and starving. I have chicken, gravy, and brown rice again for lunch. I have a run later so keeping my eating today simple (and veggie-less) to prevent any tummy issues. I grumpily pay two parking tickets ($225), one for not having a front license plate (now fixed) and one for “blocking a driveway” (that I was not actually blocking, though I was technically about one inch past the red line on the curb). I’ve only had this car for a few months — good lesson to be more careful when street parking. $225
4:30 p.m. — I log off, have some chocolate-covered pistachios and a couple of mandarin oranges for a snack, and head out for my run. My legs feel like lead for the first couple miles and I start to spiral a bit thinking about the race, but I feel better once I’m warmed up. When I get back I quickly shower, suck down a pre-made recovery smoothie that tastes like baby food, and race off to choir practice.
9:30 p.m. — Home from choir and I eat a bunch of cheese and crackers and leftover beet salad (curse you) before heading to bed.
Daily Total: $225
Day Four: Wednesday
9 a.m. — Walk/feed T., make coffee, and log on to work. I have my year-end performance review this afternoon and am already so nervous I’m not hungry for breakfast. I got a new manager a few months ago (which is overall a good thing — my last manager was terrible, like: “didn’t believe in promotions” terrible) and have been feeling some serious imposter syndrome.
11 a.m. — After a few meetings, I finally get hungry and order a salad and a coconut milk matcha latte from a bougie lunch place nearby ($40), because more caffeine is what my anxiety needs. P. checks the mail and I have received a check for $450 from the dealership I bought my car from — apparently they overcharged me for some part of the car-buying process. Sweet! $40
2:30 p.m. — Suck it, imposter syndrome — my review went great! My manager said he intends to promote me later this year, and is also planning to make some org changes that would expand my scope and increase the size of my team. I did not expect this at all and am thrilled. Almost more important than that good news, he gave me the most comprehensive and fair review I’ve had in years; I feel so seen in a way I wasn’t sure was possible at work. He’s the fifth manager I’ve had since I got this role not even three years ago (the one I was interviewing for in my last Money Diary!) and far and away the best. I eat some potato chips and a few pieces of chocolate as a celebratory snack.
5 p.m. — I log off, walk T. to pick up our CSA (more beets… Kill me), and start making tomato soup for dinner. While it’s simmering I do a 60-minute Peloton strength class. I make grilled cheese sandwiches and sauteed CSA kale with chili flakes and lemon juice to have alongside the soup — it’s been pouring rain all day and this is the perfect cozy dinner. P. and I eat while watching The White Lotus. So much good TV out right now!
9 p.m. — I order a couple of books from a local bookstore ($60 with shipping) while P. cleans up (he does cook every once in a while, but I find it fun and enjoyable while he does not, so mostly he stays on dish duty). One is a physical copy of a book I recently read on my Kindle called A Walk in the Park, a memoir about through-hiking the entire Grand Canyon. It’s one of the best books I’ve read in years, so I’m buying it as a “present” for P. (aka forcing him to read it so we can talk about it together). $60
Daily Total: $100
Day Five: Thursday
7 a.m. — I’m up on the early side today for a 7:30 a.m. meeting with some people in Europe. Once it’s over I take a quick break to walk and feed T. (it’s raining again so I dress her in her raincoat, which is adorable), make coffee and a smoothie, and throw Monday’s chicken carcass in the Instant Pot for stock, then I’m in meetings for the rest of the morning.
12:30 p.m. — I heat up leftover tomato soup and make another grilled cheese for lunch, then it’s time for therapy ($200, which will eventually be reimbursed by my FSA). We spend the whole session talking about my anxiety about work and my inability to feel satisfied even when I do well — I was happy and relieved about my good review and then immediately started worrying about work again afterwards. My New Year’s resolution this year was to be less emotionally invested in my job… it’s very much a work in progress.
4:30 p.m. — My therapist encouraged me to celebrate the win of the good review, so I tell P. we’re scrapping the plan to cook a healthy stew tonight and going out instead. He makes a res at an Italian place we love, and now I have to hustle to walk T. and get my run in before dinner. Hill sprints today, which is a disgusting but mercifully short workout. I quickly shower and throw on an all-black outfit of an AllSaints slip dress, a cashmere sweater, and ancient Frye combat boots.
6:30 p.m. — We make it to dinner right on time. We split a cheese and prosciutto plate and a fennel and orange salad to start, and I get a lamb sugo pasta dish that is absolutely perfect. We each get a cocktail (Negroni for me) and a glass of red wine ($217 total, split). $108
8 p.m. — We’re in a silly, goofy mood so we go to a fancy grocery store on our way home and get a few different kinds of IPAs and a bunch of chocolate bars with different flavors and fillings ($70, split). When we get home, we smoke some weed, have some beers and chocolate and watch The World’s End, the only Cornetto Trilogy movie I haven’t seen yet. It’s not quite as good as the other two (Hot Fuzz and Shaun of the Dead), but still hilarious and right up my alley. $35
Daily Total: $343
Day Six: Friday
8 a.m. — I wake up feeling less than stellar — shouldn’t have celebrated quite so hard last night. Oh well, it’s Friday and I have no meetings today. It’s raining again, so I suit myself and T. up in our rain gear. P. has coffee ready for me when I get back, and I have TJ’s peanut butter protein granola with milk for breakfast.
12 p.m. — P. and I decide to order Souvla for lunch. We both get chicken salads and make them Greek style, which is where they put fries on top for an extra dollar ($46, split). It’s payday today! I put $2,500 towards my credit card bill and $500 to my car loan. I randomly check Paypal for the first time in a while and see that I have $186 waiting for me from Rakuten; I transfer that to my bank account. $23
3 p.m. — My morning walk in the rain reminded me that my rain boots are falling apart. I do some research and order a pair of black Merry People boots as a replacement ($152). I eat some more chocolate as a healthy afternoon snack. I have been dealing with a serious chocolate craving recently… And by “dealing with”, I mean buying and eating copious amounts of chocolate. The Tony’s Chocolonely Everything Bar is my current favorite — it has a bunch of salty fillings and is so moreish. $152
5:30 p.m. — I take T. for a long evening walk to mark the end of the work week. When I get back, I prep dinner — the once-viral Alison Roman chickpea stew, with collard greens from our CSA. While it simmers I take a 45-minute yoga class.
7 p.m. — P. and I eat the stew with Greek yogurt and crushed pita chips on top. We watch the newest episode of Severance and I have some of the aforementioned Everything Bar for dessert, then head to bed around 10 p.m.
Daily Total: $175
Day Seven: Saturday
8:30 a.m. — Wake up, get dressed in running clothes, walk and feed T. I make coffee and a standard pre-long run breakfast: three pieces of toast, two with butter, one with peanut butter, all with plum jam.
11 a.m. — We drive to a trailhead in Marin. P. is taking T. on an adventure while I do my run; the cleaners are here today so we need to be out of the house.
3 p.m. — Done with my long run! It was a gorgeous day and a big confidence booster compared to last weekend — I mostly felt great. P. and T. had a great day too, hiking and going to the beach. Unfortunately on the drive home I feel seriously nauseous, and have to pull over several times to get some fresh air (the windy roads don’t help). We get home and I quickly shower and crawl into bed for a nap.
7 p.m. — I was supposed to see a movie with friends tonight but I still don’t feel great, so I cancel and invite them over for dinner tomorrow instead. I order chicken rice from my favorite Thai place, my go-to dish if I’m feeling under the weather. I mess around on my phone for a couple hours and go to bed. $27
Daily Total: $27
The Breakdown
Conclusion
“Other than the parking tickets and rain boots, this was a pretty typical week of spending for me. I spend a lot on food — I am a ‘live to eat’ person, and it shows. I love to cook (with good ingredients), definitely have a bit of a DoorDash habit (though I don’t pay service/delivery fees through a credit card perk), and frequently enjoy a nice meal out with some drinks. I typically do two or three therapy sessions per month (both couples and individual), and as long as I can afford it, it’s worth it to me to pay out of pocket for the amazing therapists I’m currently working with. I’ve seen enough bad ones to want to hold onto the good ones. Thankfully I get a break on a good chunk of this cost through my FSA. I am still adjusting to being a car owner and all the expenses that come along with it after buying my first ever car at the end of last year. I’m working on reining in my spending this year to account for those and build my savings back up after spending $20,000 on a down payment. I’m also feeling nervous (understatement of the century) about the economy and the state of the country and world, so it’s looking like Austerity Summer 2025 is coming right up.”
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Zara Rings In 50 Years With A Supermodel-Packed Campaign & Collection
Gird your loins! Zara just dropped an iconic campaign, plus a special collection to celebrate its 50th Anniversary.
Exactly 50 years to the day since Zara opened its doors in Galicia, Spain, the reader-favorite brand gathered 50 iconic models — including OG supermodels Naomi Campbell, Cindy Crawford, Linda Evangelista, and Christy Turlington — to be shot by equally iconic photographer Steven Meisel for a short film.
“Creativity is the heart of Zara — it is the characteristic that defines us. This incredible film by Steven Meisel is an expression of creative freedom, and the magic we always want to create,” said Inditex non-executive chair and daughter of Zara’s founder, Marta Ortega Pérez, in a press release. “This campaign is a testament to everything the teams at Zara have created over the past five decades, honoring their enthusiasm, talent, and boundless creativity.”
As the models wear classic black- and- white pieces from the new drop, they dance and sing along to Donna Summer’s 1977 hit “I Feel Love,” enthusiastically sharing their love for the brand.
The 50th Anniversary collection is “centered around the monochrome classicism of tuxedo dressing” with a “seductive palette of black,” according to the press release. The 128-piece capsule includes sleek trousers, suiting separates, and cocktail dresses — along with a limited-edition graphic T-shirt ($45) — and tons of accessories that go from day to night.
So if you’re looking for model-approved “quality fashion at affordable prices,” be sure to cart up some pieces while the collection stays in stock. Ranging between $25 and $450, the collection is available to shop online now.
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I’m 5’0” And Anthropologie Is My Go-To For Petite Dresses
As a team with several editors and contributors under 5’4”, we believe that good things can come in small packages. Check back for our go-to places and styling advice on petite denim, workwear, and so much more.
For petite people, shopping often becomes a misadventure: Jeans and trousers are infallibly too long, spaghetti-strap tops without adjustable straps hardly ever make it to the register, and I’m still waiting for the day a midi dress doesn’t morph into a maxi on my body. And even when brands do have a petite section, sometimes the designs are just a little lackluster for my personal style. So, for a 5’0” person who loves clothes, there are few things more exhilarating than trying on something I love that also feels like it was tailored for me personally.
So I was pleasantly surprised to stumble upon Anthropologie’s petite section during my hunt for some new, cute summer dresses. I was delighted by the vibrant offerings — from pretty watercolor-patterned maxis to flirty minis in fruity prints — and when I got the chance to try a few of them for myself, I was thrilled with the results. Prior to testing these out, I almost forgot what it felt like to try on a dress that actually fits, as I often find it tricky to get the right proportions in the torso and skirt. But these didn’t require any adjustments; they fit me straight off the rack — meaning no trips to the tailor.
For a boozy brunch, date night, or an afternoon at the park, Anthropologie’s breezy dresses are versatile and comfortable — not to mention look like they were made-to-fit. They were also super easy to wear with items already in my wardrobe. Below, my favorite designs and how I styled them for all kinds of summer plans.
Best Petite Anthropologie Dress For Date Night
Between the embroidered cherries and flouncy mini length, this saccharine design is perfect for dinner and a night out (my girlfriend agrees). I donned it with my tried-and-true flatform Mary Janes for a bit of a boost, and threw on a pair of mid-calf, cut-out socks. A mini handbag felt appropriate for the dress (bonus points for a chunky silver handle), and I styled it with some of my favorite silvery jewelry and black sunglasses from Jenny Bird to round out the look.
If you’re between sizes or taller than me, you might want to consider sizing up (or possibly opting for the standard size) because the length tends to run on the shorter side; the elastication across the back will ensure a snug fit even if you opt for a larger size. I was also surprised by how it fit my bust — as a nonbinary person with a large chest and gender dysphoria, I typically avoid lower-cut styles, but I was impressed by how I still felt secure in the design, even without an underwire.
Best Petite Anthropologie Dress For Brunch
I’m obsessed with this uber comfortable bubble hem dress. The light gathering along the waist and two-tone color palette make this one of the easiest dresses to pair with my all-black closet, but the basic hues also serve as a neutral base for any colorful accessory choices.
I styled it with some knee-high lace-up boots, a studded black bag, and a chunky chain necklace to amp up the edge, but this could just as easily go with your favorite pair of sneakers and a sporty handbag for a more athletic, casual look. Some oversized sunnies are exactly what I needed to navigate my way through the sunny streets to the post-night-out meal, so I opted for a black pair with silver details. And the best part: It wasn’t until I spent the whole day wearing this dress that I realized it has pockets —as if I didn’t already love it before.
Best Petite Anthropologie Dress For a Park Day
Say what you will about a drop-waist dress, but I love how it elongates my torso when it fits my frame. This gingham style hits at exactly the right spot. A cropped jacket like a bolero provides coverage on the arms and shoulders while letting the waistline stand out, and my black Nike Air Rifts are always my go-to walking shoe, but any ballet flat or narrow sneaker will do the trick.
Black is a steadfast staple in my closet (if you couldn’t tell), and I like the contrast it creates with the breezy two-tone dress, but other dark colors like chocolate brown, oxblood, or even tan create a similar visual effect. I kept accessories pretty simple with a thin, flat snake chain and a paper-white bag, but a bag charm like this Miffy keychain adds a pop of color and personality.
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