Geminis are the ones who get things done! The season from May 20th to June 20th gives us the chance to complete projects due to our gusto and energy. After all, the Twin Star allows us to take on the workload of two people and get it done on time, allowing us to balance our professional and private realms. Although it seems impossible — the motto of Gemini is “I’m possible” — they don’t let anything stand in their way (except for themselves). The Gemini’s dynamics, duality, and directness are the perfect way to end spring because we can move into summer knowing that we did all we could and rocked it.
The mutable sign is a shapeshifter in that it takes on the form of the energy surrounding it. They transform to suit their surroundings and adapt accordingly. This makes Gemini super absorbent and sensitive. I know you’re probably debating whether that statement is true — but yes, Gemini has a soft side regarding passion projects and those they love. Gemini will do anything for a friend in need, as long as they know the full scope of the situation and aren’t being played a fool. The Mercurial sign is the trickster, so when the roles are reversed, it’s hard for the air sign to contemplate how someone pulled the wool over their eyes.
We’ll be searching for an intellectual connection when it comes to love. Being around an S.O./crush who makes us think is par for the course and wants to discuss literature, politics, and ethics. Communication and debate will be our temporary love language. The more intense the conversation gets, the more heated our loins will become — don’t take matters to an extreme level to ensure that a moment doesn’t become anything more. The playfulness of Gemini loves to zing anyone and anytime.
It can sometimes seem that Gemini is the most hated sign on the internet. The memes alone can send anyone into a dizzy state. Geminis have a rep for being liars, but that isn’t wholly true. First of all, everyone, no matter what sign you are, can lie, cheat, and steal. No one is immune from human temptation. Because Gemini is the most open about their endeavors and laughs about it, they get categorized in that box. Also, because Gemini is a wordsmith, they’ll describe situations with flowery prose, which can be confusing. Don’t get me wrong, gossip reigns high, so try to hush on spilling the tea. There are good attributes to Gemini: The sign is a ride-or-die pal, clever, quick-witted, and accepting. They’ll never judge anyone — except themselves because Gemini strives for perfection within and holds themselves to a high standard.
All of this can be applied to the month ahead. The only caveat is that we should be aware of the number of tasks we take on, leaving space to ensure we can also rest comfortably. Maintaining a chill vibe is essential because there is a lot of planetary action. This year, Saturn switches signs and enters Aries on May 24th for the first time since 1996. Saturn in Aries pushes us to boss up and pursue personal visions. Then, Jupiter moves into Cancer on June 9th. The last time Jupiter walked with the crabs was 2013. It’ll evolve our mindset and push us out of our comfort zone.
As you can see, Gemini season is a fantastic time to thrive. Lean into the last month of spring with a positive attitude, and you’ll embark on greatness.
Important Dates For Gemini Season:
May 20th: The sun enters Gemini, cultivating a month of optimism and cattiness.
May 24th: Saturn moves into Aries, adding desire to our goals.
May 25th: Mercury glides into Gemini, making communication easy and fluid.
May 26th: The New Moon in Gemini is a chance to start fresh and inspire the community.
June 6th: Venus walks into Taurus, helping us commit to those we love and evoke creativity.
June 8th: Mercury swims into Cancer, allowing us to lean into our intuition.
June 9th: Jupiter travels into Cancer, advancing our mindset and emotions.
June 11th: The Full Moon in Sagittarius urges us to seek adventure and explore the world.
June 15th: Jupiter in Cancer squares Saturn in Aries, making us reassess our plans for the future.
June 17th: Mars begins to take action in Virgo, implementing practicality in how we take action.
June 18th: Jupiter in Cancer squares Neptune in Aries, heightening our passions.
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Summer dressing hits different — breezy dresses, crisp white tops, and nautical-inspired staples, from poplin button-downs to boat shoes (à la the trending fisherman aesthetic), are simply everything. Add in this season’s sandal lineup (Flip-flops! Slides! Kitten heels!) and a color palette spanning butter yellow to powder pink — plus cheery prints like polka dots and stripes — and it’s officially time to refresh the rotation.
Ever stand in front of your jam-packed wardrobe, staring at more than enough clothing options, and think: I have nothing to wear? Same. But perhaps the issue isn’t that you’re out of viable outfit choices. You just need a fresh dose of inspiration — say: outfits for hot weather, perhaps — to help you see your wardrobe in a new way. That’s where Outfit Dump comes in. We supply you with enough ideas to fuel your style until the next drop comes along.
Memorial Day weekend is drawing near, ready to kick off the unofficial start to summer. And what’s the only thing better than the long, leisurely, hazy days of summer? Summer vacation season, when we get to enjoy all of those things in gorgeous settings removed from the reality of our 9-to-5s.
When it comes to stuffing your suitcase with summer vacation outfits, there’s a lot to consider: What’s on the itinerary? Are you in need of looks that will last you day to night, or will you have time for midday outfit changes? What is *your* travel style? Will you be dressing for comfort? Or channeling the latest fashion trends (the aspirational European summer aesthetic, for example) that feel out of place in your regular life?
It’s only once you answer all of these questions that the packing (and outfit planning) can start. That’s where we come in. We’ve rounded up some of the best inspo-worthy looks — from Cowboy Carter-esque Western ’fits to milkmaid dresses, trendy butter yellow pieces, and more — from our IG feeds to help get your fashion creativity going. Keep scrolling for some summer vacation outfit ideas.
Vacation outfit idea: boho vibes
Take things easy this summer with a boho-inspired look. Opt for a classic flowy white top, like the scallop-trimmed top seen here, or go all-in with airy pieces covered in ruffles and fringe. A printed scarf, tied around your head for sun protection, is the perfect finishing touch.
Vacation outfit idea: European summer aesthetic
The European summer aesthetic is still going strong for summer 2025. Think oversized button-up shirts (or shirt dresses, as seen here), striped patterns, tailored pieces, top-handle bags, and anything else that might make for an elevated outfit you’d see on the streets of, say, Cannes or Rome.
Vacation outfit idea: denim maxi skirt
Keep your denim maxi skirt warm-weather appropriate and casual by styling it with a cropped top and comfy shoes of your choosing.
Vacation outfit idea: dress with cut-outs
A maxi dress with cut-outs at the hips and back will fit right in at any vacation destination, whether you’re strolling on the beach or checking out the local restaurants after a day of exploring.
Vacation outfit idea: strapless dress
A beach-ready strapless dress belongs in your vacation suitcase — especially if your travels call for a wedding guest dress.
Vacation outfit idea: printed skirt
Getting dressed in summer doesn’t have to be complicated. Build your outfit around a hot-weather-friendly skirt with a bold print — it won’t need much more than a white tank and a pair of sandals.
Vacation outfit idea: printed dress
Or try a slinky maxi dress with statement-making print instead of a skirt. Embrace the adventure of travel by opting for an eclectic pattern you might not otherwise wear — leave the safe, classic prints for home.
Vacation outfit idea: romper
In search of style and comfort? Look no further than a one-and-done romper. We love the trendy polka-dot print pictured here, but play to your personality with any range of colors and prints.
Vacation outfit idea: pretty lace
Lacy, lingerie-esque pieces have been on-trend for a while now, which makes your summer holiday the time to revisit the style or jump on board if you haven’t already. Add a pretty white floral embellishment and you’re ready for whatever the day ahead holds.
Vacation outfit idea: elevated halter dress
Dress up your everyday beachwear with a more sophisticated take on a summer classic. This soft yellow tweed halter dress leans into the still-popular butter yellow trend.
Proof that it’s possible to combine multiple trends without doing too much, this holiday-ready look combines some summer favorites: see-through layers, crochet fabrics, and ballet pumps.
Vacation outfit idea: breezy whites
Crisp, breezy white fabrics are a summertime staple every season for a reason. This matching set helps the look feel more put-together.
Vacation outfit idea: chic sun protection
Consider this floral maxi dress and not-too-big hat your sign that protecting yourself from the sun’s rays can be fashionable. Here at Refinery29, we’re in agreement that sun protection is always chic.
Vacation outfit idea: mix-and-match swimwear
Mix and match your fave swimsuit with a contrasting coverup to add a playful element to your poolside outfit.
Vacation outfit idea: summer black
Edgy, cool shades of black for summer on a scorching hot beach? You bet.
Vacation outfit idea: drop-waist dresses
Drop-waist dresses are sticking around for another season. We love the cinched bustier on this piece, which can be dressed up or down depending on how you choose to style it.
Vacation outfit idea: bold neons
Shine as bright as the summer sun and keep the good vibes going in head-to-toe neon.
Vacation outfit idea: butter yellow
Pick almost any trend and you’ll instantly find it in a delicious butter yellow. All that will be left for you to do is bask in the inevitable compliments that come rolling in.
Vacation outfit idea: ultra casual
Nothing says “I’m on holiday and have zero responsibilities for a week” like an oversized graphic tee and a bag big enough to fit the entire contents of your suitcase.
Vacation outfit idea: denim on denim
Building on the Western trend, with cowboy boots and hats galore, double denim is bigger than ever. Make like a fashion insider and play with different shapes and textures, and consider yourself Cowboy Carter ready.
Vacation outfit idea: keep it sporty
It may not be the summer of Challengers, but if the sporty look was ever good enough for Zendaya… This season, keep it simple with a tennis skirt and fitted tank.
Vacation outfit idea: jorts
Last year, it was all about the Bermuda shorts. This year, it’s all about the jort. Play with shape and proportion by pairing your favorite oversized jean shorts with a fitted top.
Vacation outfit idea: denim maxi skirt
Denim maxi skirts resurfaced last summer and still reign supreme. Keep things weather-appropriate and casual by styling yours with a white tank top and a pair of cute yet functional trainers.
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Fair warning: There’s a lot to sort through. So, we’ve made it our mission to curate the best Anthropologie dresses available now — including viral faves like the Tobi and Somerset silhouettes.
We’ve combed through the site from top to bottom and picked the best of the best in a rainbow of hues and lengths. Everything from slinky silk slips to work-appropriate shirt dresses awaits ahead, so you might want to make room in your closet (and on your packing list).
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The Tobi Dress
It’s no wonder Exquise’s Tobie dress has developed a cult following. Between the waist-cinching hourglass silhouette, shirting-inspired collar, full skirt, and batwing-like sleeves, this might be the perfect midi. It’s super versatile, whether you’re dressing for work or the weekend, and now comes in a range of prints, patterns, colors, and versions: mini, denim, jumpsuit, and blouse.
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The Somerset Dress
Before the Tobie, there was the Somerset — a true Anthropologie staple that hasn’t lost an ounce of its charm. It started as another waist-cinching cotton maxi with a milkmaid-inspired cut: Nipped-in waist, panelled skirt, and cap sleeves. Since then, it’s been reimagined in velvet, denim, and across pants, jumpsuits, tops, and skirts (Anthro even has a dedicated Somerset shop). For summer, you’ll find the style in breathable linen, classic florals, mini rompers, strapless styles, and eyelet embroidery.
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Anthropologie Petite Dresses
Calling all petites: get yourself to Anthropologie stat. The retailer has a dedicated petite shop, packed with stylish options — including many of the same designs available in standard sizing, especially when it comes to dresses. There were almost too many to choose from!
Do you have a wedding to attend this summer? Anthropologie’s dress shop can solve just about any guest-dressing dilemma, especially for formal events.
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Anthropologie Vacation Dresses
With vibrant colors, bold prints, and breezy cuts, these dresses were made for the summer. Whether you’re headed beachside or to a cocktail bar, these picks go the distance — no sweat.
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Anthropologie Butter Yellow Dresses
The color du jour? Soft, sunny butter yellow. It complements every skin tone and pairs seamlessly with both neutrals and brights. Think of it as wearable sunshine — and yes, we’re obsessed.
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Anthropologie Polka Dot Dresses
Polka dots are a forever classic, but this season, they feel fresher than ever. At Anthropologie, you’ll find them on sheer mesh, cascading ruffles, and bubble-hem minis that tap the moment without losing their timeless charm.
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Anthropologie Bubble Hem Dresses
It’s the season of the bubble hem. These puffed-up minis, midis, and maxis bring all the drama — and we’re here for every sculptural and flouncy take.
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Memorial Day is quickly approaching, but the sales are already here. Many of our favorite brands and retailers have launched early MDW deals, and we’ve done the digging so you can shop stress-free.
Read on for your one-stop guide to every worthwhile discount code and markdown from brands like Abercrombie & Fitch and Nordstrom to Wayfair, and more. We’ll be updating this list as new deals go live — so fill your virtual cart with summer staples while they’re at their lowest.
Whether we’re traveling by plane, train, or car, the goal is simple: get from point A to B safely, and ideally in comfort. While the former isn’t always up to us, the latter is — and it starts with the right clothes.
The ideal travel outfit checks a few key boxes. It should be loose enough to move in (or offer supportive compression), and made from breathable, durable fabric — especially on flights where cabin temps can fluctuate. Think travel pants, compression socks, and the like.
And perhaps most importantly, a great travel outfit should make you feel confident while looking put-together. So if you are in the market for stylish, affordable pieces for your next getaway, you’ve arrived at your shopping destination.
We’ve rounded up the best travel outfits on Amazon — chic, budget-friendly, and ready to pair with your go-to travel shoes. Read on for top-rated picks to help you arrive in style.
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Best Travel Pants
There’s a lot of movement while in transit, so wear something that can handle walking, running, or even squatting. A wide-leg silhouette offers freedom to move without sacrificing polish. When in doubt, go for denim joggers with a stretchy waistband. Bonus points for pockets — ideally zippered or with flaps to keep valuables secure.
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Best Travel Shorts
If you’re wearing shorts for summer travel, skip fitted waistbands and fussy buttons. Elastic styles are ideal for long stretches of sitting. Classic cotton works, but cargo and biker shorts with longer inseams and extra pockets are even better. A skort with hidden storage, like the one above, adds a stylish, functional twist.
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Best Matching Sweatsuits For Travel
A matching sweatsuit is the next best thing to PJs when traveling — a more polished sibling of sleepwear that’s easy to style on the go. This relaxed set can be worn together or mixed and matched, making it a versatile staple for any travel capsule wardrobe.
Best Travel Jackets
Packing light is key for longer trips, which is why a “shacket” — the heroic shirt-jacket hybrid — makes an ideal travel layer. Wear it as a top or outerwear, and stash it easily when not in use. It’s lightweight enough to tie around your waist or drape over your shoulders, adding just the right touch in transit.
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Best Sweatshirts For Travel
Few things match the ease and versatility of a great sweatshirt. Pair it with leggings or bike shorts for a low-key look, or dress it up slightly with jeans and sneakers. Half-zips are especially travel-friendly — zip up when it’s cold, unzip to cool down.
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Best Compression Socks For Travel
Long trips can take a toll on your legs and feet, especially in the air. Compression socks help reduce swelling and muscle cramps by promoting circulation. This three-pack is a favorite among Amazon shoppers, with hundreds of 5-star reviews praising the ankle support and easy-on fit.
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Tatcha makes some of the most luxurious skincare in my cabinet, but when it comes to daily essentials, nothing is more important than sunscreen. Mineral formulas are usually my go-to (I’m acne-prone and find they tend to break me out less than their chemical counterparts), and Tatcha’s The Silk Sunscreen is among my latest favorites.
My introduction to the brand’s sunscreens came via the Silken Pore Perfecting Sunscreen SPF 35 — the one in the blue tube — which has a creamier, putty-like texture and chemical filters at play. I liked it, sure, but craved something lighter for year-round wear. Summer’s just around the corner, and my oily complexion struggles with heavier formulas (although to be clear, I’ll take a few zits over UV damage any day).
Enter, The Silk Sunscreen. It reminds me of those from my favorite Japanese brands (Tatcha formulates several products in Japan, though this is not one of them), which are fluid-thin in consistency and absorb instantly. In addition to zinc oxide, the formula features silk extract (yes, really — it’s naturally rich in amino acids), niacinamide (my go-to for pore-clarifying and brightening), and squalane for moisture and barrier support. (It recently got a packaging upgrade and now joins Tatcha’s family of Silk Serum, Silk Cream, and Silk Canvas primer. And while the formula itself hasn’t changed, it’s still a popular (if not a little divisive — more on that later) pick among high-end SPF.
A common pain point with mineral sunscreens is that the filters (usually zinc or titanium oxide) often leave a chalky white cast, especially on darker skin tones. I have medium olive skin, and found that the Silk Sunscreen blended in impressively well without a trace. However, it doesn’t work as seamlessly for everyone. Content creator and cosmetic chemist Esther Olu posted a viral review showing the product leaving a ghostly pallor on her skin. (Tatcha, please make a darker tinted version!)
Now for the big, expensive elephant in the room: this stuff is pricey — admittedly, too pricey at $64 for 1.7 fluid ounces. Still, it’s one of the most luxurious sunscreens I’ve ever used, and I can’t lie: I genuinely love it. If you’re a Tatcha stan or have bougie taste in sunscreen, it’s definitely worth trying or gifting. The texture and finish feel incredible, — soft and diffused with oil control — and it layers flawlessly under makeup. (My everyday routine is a sheer skin tint and cream blush, and this sunscreen helps both wear longer.) I legitimately look forward to using it every day, and it’s like experts say: The best sunscreen is the one you’ll actually want to wear.
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The beauty of this year’s nail trends is that they work regardless of the weather. Take the versatile “no-makeup” makeup manicure, shimmering pixie dust nails or chrome French tips, for example, all of which have proven timeless. And while minimalist manicures have ruled thanks to their classic color palettes, summer always brings bolder, head-turning nail looks.
Whether you love a pared-back Californian beach vibe or a heatwave-worthy riot of brights, this summer’s hottest nail trends are undeniably fun. Ahead, we caught up with our favorite nail experts and top manicurists to bring you their predictions for 11 of the very best summer nail trends to try once the sunshine hits.
Pastel hues are a staple for summer, but they’re about to get even cooler. “Inspired by ocean hues and breezy holiday vibes, pale icy blue is a contemporary color choice for summer 2025,” says session manicurist Ami Streets. While blue might sound bold, it’s surprisingly fresh and subtle when worn all over like this color block manicure by manicurist Rayhana Osman. Streets recommends Chanel Le Vernis Nail Color in 125 Muse, $33, as “a beautiful powder blue that’s perfect for summer.”
Originating in Korea and Japan, the jelly nail trend has been slowly emerging as one to watch — and it recently exploded on social media when Hailey Bieber stepped out in her own jelly manicure at Coachella this year. Defined by its slightly translucent finish and playful color palette (often combined with 3D details), jelly nails are fun and fresh. We love this pink-toned marble set by Paris-based nail artist @camillegdzle58.
For the minimalists among us, manicurist and Bio Sculpture top tech Julia Diogo predicts there will still be a space for nudes this summer: “A creamy, whipped vanilla is perfect for summer as it gives off the most amazing sunset hues in certain lights while still being neutral,” she explains. Her color pick? Bio Sculpture’s Vanilla Skyline, $14.50, as seen in this chic set by manicurist Amy Burvill.
Micro nail art will continue to be hugely popular for summer, and session and celebrity manicurist Sophia Stylianou thinks that polka dots will be everywhere. “Small polka dots are a great way to begin adding more playful color to your manicure,” she explains. This set by Studio Bloom takes two breakout shades of the year — butter yellow and mocha mousse — and elevates them for the season ahead with a dotty design.
Green nails took off in spring and will continue to do so, but it’s avocado in particular that nail artist Carmelina (aka @hicarmelina) is most excited by. “Avocado green, especially when used for French tips, has that fresh ‘cool-girl’ twist and works perfectly with sun-kissed skin,” she explains. Recreate this double French look by digital creator Mateja Novakovic with Mancurist’s Nail Polish in Sweet Pea, $14.
Bookmark the British manicure as one you’ll be seeing everywhere this summer. “It’s a modern, more natural take on the classic French manicure,” explains Rebecca Crawforth, founder of nail tools brand Navy Professional. “Soft, clean and effortlessly polished, it’s about sheer, healthy-looking nails with a subtle tip.” Recreate this beautifully simple nail look by Lucy Rebecca with a coat of sheer pink polish like Essie’s Nail Polish in Mademoiselle, $10.
Coastal accents and beachy vibes make for a fresh and breezy option for summer. “I’ve noticed a huge increase in requests for tiny nail art and 3D detail, like tiny seashells and sea creatures, which are accents you can’t go wrong with,” says Carmelina. Nail tech Hannah Leong‘s starfish set combines hand-painted details with powder blue tips and a beautiful shell texture.
Color blending techniques like marbling, gradient, and aura nails are ideal for summer, but Streets has ombré bookmarked as the hottest option. “Effortlessly blending pastel shades in a soft ombré gradient creates a delicate sun-kissed effect that feels light, airy, and totally on-trend,” says Streets. Nail creator Anahi Victoria uses a blend of sunset-inspired shades for this dreamy look.
While neon hues won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, there’s something about a Day-Glo manicure that truly marks the arrival of sunshine season. If you’re not sure about a block color, go for a micro French tip in a brighter-than-bright shade, but if you want to make a statement, then a fluoro green (like Julia Diogo’s kiwi manicure) ticks all the boxes. Recreate it with Sally Hansen’s Insta-Dri Syrup Nail Polish in The Drizz, $7.99.
While metallics traditionally tend to dominate as a fall and winter trend, Diogo predicts they will translate well to summer nail looks, too: “I love to keep things micro when it comes to nail art, so touches of chrome are nice for a minimal yet summer-focused look,” she explains. We’ll be rushing to recreate this pastel and chrome combination by N’DAO Shoreditch at our next trip to the salon.
Last but by no means least, this year’s hottest nail color — butter yellow — will continue to be on everyone’s nails for summer. Streets rates it for its “soft, chic, and effortlessly fresh” finish. It plays nicely with a multitude of nail art designs, too. This one by Laktalk nail salon screams summer with its mermaid textures and shell embellishments.
This story was originally published on Refinery29 UK.
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There’s no shortage of summer sandals out there — but this season, the best pairs are pulling double duty: delivering on comfort and style, with just enough personality to make even your most minimal outfit feel considered. We’re talking chunky platform sandals that add height without the pain, strappy sandals with sculptural details, and upgraded flip-flops crafted from leather instead of foam.
And ICYMI, it’s peak fisherman sandal season — and we’re seeing plenty of modern riffs on the closed-toe classic, from woven leather to jelly styles. Hiking sandals are going strong, too, with rugged soles and utilitarian straps that bring a cool, functional edge to softer summer looks. There are also more playful takes emerging this year — think high-shine metallics, bold color pops, and contrast against grounded, earthy neutrals. And then there are slides — forever the MVPs of summer — delivering that unmatched mix of nonchalant chicness, spontaneous errand-readiness, and “I just threw these on” energy.
So whether you’re heading to a rooftop happy hour, walking upwards of 10 city blocks to meet a friend, or just looking for a fresh pair to wear on repeat, we’ve rounded up the best summer sandals to slip into now.
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Platform Sandals
Platform shoes continue to be a summer-favorite style, being both height boosters and a generally comfortable alternative to heels. (Snaps for how chunky soles provide cushioning between you and the hard floor or sidewalk.) This season, we’re seeing platform sandals in sleek ’90s minimalist shapes and playful finishes, from metallic and pastel leather to woven patterns.
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Flip-flops
Your throwback flip-flops just got a glow-up. While the classic silhouette remains, everything else has leveled up — smooth leather straps, squared-off soles, and vibrant hues make these feel incredibly considered rather than an afterthought. We’re especially loving the sleek, sculptural hardware finishes that give them a dressed-up edge — the kind of flip-flops you can wear to dinner or even a summer wedding.
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Hiking Sandals
Once reserved for the trail, hiking sandals have entered their fashion era. With cushy footbeds, rugged soles, and utilitarian straps, they’re equal parts practical and cool. This season’s versions come in unexpected finishes — ombré webbing, metallic accents, bold colorblocking — making them feel less camp counselor, more street-style ready.
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Strappy Sandals
This season’s strappy sandals lean minimalist — think barely-there soles, fine leather straps, and sculptural toe loops that feel simple but intentional. Many are beautifully crafted in soft leather, with some styles even edging into gladiator sandal territory with ankle ties and delicate lace-ups. They’re the ultimate nonchalant finish to summer’s airy dresses, breathable tailoring, and jorts-on-the-weekend energy.
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Slides
Slides are summer’s ultimate throw-on-and-go sandal — unfussy, comfortable, and, when crafted from leather or suede, quietly polished. This season’s best pairs play with texture and silhouette: think minimalist mesh, oversized buckles, and vibrant tones from cherry red to butter yellow. They’re the kind of sandals that make even a tank-and-shorts outfit feel styled — ideal for slow weekends, spontaneous errands, or any day you want to look low-key elevated.
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Fisherman Sandals
One of the biggest closed-toe sandal trends is the fisherman sandal, perfect for stretching time between pedicures. They strike a charming balance between a sandal and a ballet flat, offering just enough coverage with plenty of airflow. Go classic with a neutral leather pair, or try a braided silhouette for added texture and interest.
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Welcome toMoney Diaries where we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. We’re asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we’re tracking every last dollar.
Today: an advertising manager who has a $449,000 household income and who spends some of her money this week on two parking tickets.
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Occupation: Manager Industry: Advertising Age: 34 Location: San Francisco Salary: $221,000 ($184,000 base, ~$37,000 bonus paid out quarterly based on achievement to a team revenue goal). Joint income: My husband, P., currently makes $228,000, so our joint income is $449,000. He just started a new job after two and a half years of unstable employment (due to two layoffs, a brief midlife crisis, and a terrible job market) and this is the highest he’s ever earned. We have separate finances and mostly split expenses down the middle (as long as we’re in the same ballpark salary-wise; I have been covering more in the past few years, and he did the same when he out-earned me in the past). Controversial, but it works for us. Assets: Checking: $500; savings: $6,500; HYSA: $23,000; investment account: $80,000; Roth 401(k): $275,000; backdoor Roth IRA: $38,000; vested company stock: ~$2,000; unvested company stock: ~$18,000; car worth: ~$26,000. Debt: Car loan: $18,000; credit card balance: $4,000. Paycheck Amount (2x/month): $3,000 Pronouns: She/her
Monthly Expenses Housing Costs: $1,572 — my half of a rented two-bedroom that I share with J. Loan Payments: $400 (car payment). Car Insurance: $172 Peloton: $44 Phone: $40, paid to my parents (still on the family plan). Pandora/Splitwise/iCloud: $15 Health Insurance: $180 (this is including J.’s; I’ve been covering this while he’s been unemployed and he hasn’t switched to his company’s plan yet). 401(k) Contribution: $2,000 (this is high because I like to max it out early). Charitables: $100 to my (nonprofit) choir; $50 to National Network of Abortion Funds; ~$50-$100 to one-off causes. Cleaners: $250 (twice a month; my half). Streaming Services: $30 (my half). Spotify: $8 (my half). Utilities: ~$80 (my half). CSA: $60 (my half).
Was there an expectation for you to attend higher education? Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it? Not going to college was not an option in my family, and my parents fully paid for my tuition at a liberal arts school. It was a huge privilege that I didn’t fully understand until I was an adult.
Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money? Did your parent(s)/guardian(s) educate you about finances? Money was a pretty taboo topic growing up. I didn’t get much of a financial education beyond not putting things on credit cards.
What was your first job and why did you get it? I babysat and nannied for neighborhood kids starting when I was 13. My first paycheck jobs were working at Limited Too (RIP) and as a receptionist for my dad’s small business. I got them for spending and gas money.
Did you worry about money growing up? Not at all. I grew up solidly upper middle class and always had everything I needed, went to private school, participated in sports and extracurriculars, and went on one or two trips a year. My parents both got more successful in their careers over time (moreso for my mom) and by the time I was in late high school and in college they were decently wealthy.
Do you worry about money now? Less than I used to. I was financially unstable until I started at my current company and nearly tripled my salary six years ago, and now I feel good about where I’m at. Getting through a tough couple years with J.’s job situation has weirdly made me more confident financially, though it was very stressful at the time. My worries these days are more about retirement savings and whether I’ll ever be able to buy a house in my very HCOL area than being destitute.
At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself and do you have a financial safety net? I started paying my own bills after graduating from college at 21, paying for health insurance at 26, and finally, my own phone bill at 30. I am very lucky to have both my parents and my in-laws as a financial safety net.
Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income? If yes, please explain. My parents gave me $30,000 following the sale of my dad’s business, paid for my wedding, gave me $3,000 to help set me up after I graduated college, and covered half my rent for three months ($4,000) so I could afford to break up with a live-in ex. I have inherited $12,000 total from extended family members who’ve passed away.
Day One: Sunday
9:30 a.m. — I wake up naturally and see that I have slept for 12 hours. Sheesh! I did a long trail run yesterday that had me questioning all my life choices, and my body clearly needed some extra rest. Surprised that my dog, T., didn’t wake me up, too — she usually starts bugging for her morning walk by 8 a.m. at the latest. I get up and check my phone and see that Daylight Savings happened overnight and all becomes clear (though 11 hours is still a lot of sleep). Take T. outside and feed her.
11 a.m. — I make coffee and order a Mediterranean chicken and rice bowl for brunch ($33), then walk to Trader Joe’s for the weekly shop. I buy fresh flowers, thyme, rosemary, cilantro, scallions, milk, Kerrygold butter (this is lifestyle creep), kimchi, a chicken, shallots, lemons, limes, bone broth, eggs, coconut milk, chickpeas, canned tomatoes, cheddar, coffee beans, non-alcoholic beer, and several random chocolate bars ($152). $185
1 p.m. — I get a kimchi and pork shoulder stew going on the stove, then take T. for her lunchtime walk. When I get back I have to move my car, so I go to the car wash while I’m out. This was long overdue and she’s so shiny now! $16.00
4 p.m. — I walk T. again and then practice some choir songs for an hour or so. Sorry neighbors. Then I reluctantly do a 45-minute Peloton spin class and 10 minutes of abs. I’m in the early stages of training for a 50-mile ultramarathon (my first, I am terrified) and part of the training is doing a workout (eventually a run, but at this point biking or hiking) the day after the weekly long run to get used to effort on tired legs. My legs are indeed tired.
7 p.m. — P. gets home from a weekend out of town and we eat the stew. It was a new recipe for me and it turns out pretty tasty but not worth the effort — there was a good bit of prep at the beginning but it turned out kind of bland with an unappetizing texture, so I don’t think I’ll make it again. I have some of the TJ’s chocolate for dessert while we watch the most recent episode of Severance, and I go to bed around 10 p.m.
Daily Total: $201
Day Two: Monday
8 a.m. — I wake up to my alarm (I bought a Loftie alarm a year ago to get my phone out of the bedroom and I love it) and get up to walk and feed T. I do my morning skincare (Caudalie salicylic acid toner, SkinCeuticals Phloretin CF Vitamin C serum, Kiehl’s lotion) and put on a Beyond Yoga spacedye set (I wear these pretty much every day) and a sweatshirt. Make coffee, a piece of buttered toast, and a couple of mandarin oranges for breakfast and log on to work at 9 a.m.
12 p.m. — It’s a pretty quiet work day with only one meeting, which is a nice way to ease into the week. I heat up leftover stew for lunch, then take T. for a walk.
5 p.m. — I log off and start prepping dinner (roast chicken, gravy, mashed potatoes, and a beet salad) while listening to one of my fave podcasts, Las Culturistas. They do a segment called “I Don’t Think So Honey”, where they each do a one-minute improv rant about something that’s bugging them, and I think about what mine would be today. I Don’t Think So Honey: beets. There are too many of you in my CSA boxes and I’m sick of you and there are only so many beet/orange/goat cheese salads I can take. Please drop your best beet recipes in the comments.
8 p.m. — I do the NYT crossword and read Severance fan theories on Reddit while P. cleans up. We start the new season of Drive to Survive. I’m not a reality TV person or a car person, but this show fascinates me — I love the very niche rich car boy drama.
Daily Total: $0
Day Three: Tuesday
7:30 a.m. — Tuesday is always a busy day. I’m booked solid with meetings from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m., so I log on at 8 a.m. to get some work done beforehand. I eat leftover chicken and gravy over brown rice for breakfast while I work. Chicken for breakfast twice already this week… The heart wants what it wants.
1 p.m. — Done with meetings and starving. I have chicken, gravy, and brown rice again for lunch. I have a run later so keeping my eating today simple (and veggie-less) to prevent any tummy issues. I grumpily pay two parking tickets ($225), one for not having a front license plate (now fixed) and one for “blocking a driveway” (that I was not actually blocking, though I was technically about one inch past the red line on the curb). I’ve only had this car for a few months — good lesson to be more careful when street parking. $225
4:30 p.m. — I log off, have some chocolate-covered pistachios and a couple of mandarin oranges for a snack, and head out for my run. My legs feel like lead for the first couple miles and I start to spiral a bit thinking about the race, but I feel better once I’m warmed up. When I get back I quickly shower, suck down a pre-made recovery smoothie that tastes like baby food, and race off to choir practice.
9:30 p.m. — Home from choir and I eat a bunch of cheese and crackers and leftover beet salad (curse you) before heading to bed.
Daily Total: $225
Day Four: Wednesday
9 a.m. — Walk/feed T., make coffee, and log on to work. I have my year-end performance review this afternoon and am already so nervous I’m not hungry for breakfast. I got a new manager a few months ago (which is overall a good thing — my last manager was terrible, like: “didn’t believe in promotions” terrible) and have been feeling some serious imposter syndrome.
11 a.m. — After a few meetings, I finally get hungry and order a salad and a coconut milk matcha latte from a bougie lunch place nearby ($40), because more caffeine is what my anxiety needs. P. checks the mail and I have received a check for $450 from the dealership I bought my car from — apparently they overcharged me for some part of the car-buying process. Sweet! $40
2:30 p.m. — Suck it, imposter syndrome — my review went great! My manager said he intends to promote me later this year, and is also planning to make some org changes that would expand my scope and increase the size of my team. I did not expect this at all and am thrilled. Almost more important than that good news, he gave me the most comprehensive and fair review I’ve had in years; I feel so seen in a way I wasn’t sure was possible at work. He’s the fifth manager I’ve had since I got this role not even three years ago (the one I was interviewing for in my last Money Diary!) and far and away the best. I eat some potato chips and a few pieces of chocolate as a celebratory snack.
5 p.m. — I log off, walk T. to pick up our CSA (more beets… Kill me), and start making tomato soup for dinner. While it’s simmering I do a 60-minute Peloton strength class. I make grilled cheese sandwiches and sauteed CSA kale with chili flakes and lemon juice to have alongside the soup — it’s been pouring rain all day and this is the perfect cozy dinner. P. and I eat while watching The White Lotus. So much good TV out right now!
9 p.m. — I order a couple of books from a local bookstore ($60 with shipping) while P. cleans up (he does cook every once in a while, but I find it fun and enjoyable while he does not, so mostly he stays on dish duty). One is a physical copy of a book I recently read on my Kindle called A Walk in the Park, a memoir about through-hiking the entire Grand Canyon. It’s one of the best books I’ve read in years, so I’m buying it as a “present” for P. (aka forcing him to read it so we can talk about it together). $60
Daily Total: $100
Day Five: Thursday
7 a.m. — I’m up on the early side today for a 7:30 a.m. meeting with some people in Europe. Once it’s over I take a quick break to walk and feed T. (it’s raining again so I dress her in her raincoat, which is adorable), make coffee and a smoothie, and throw Monday’s chicken carcass in the Instant Pot for stock, then I’m in meetings for the rest of the morning.
12:30 p.m. — I heat up leftover tomato soup and make another grilled cheese for lunch, then it’s time for therapy ($200, which will eventually be reimbursed by my FSA). We spend the whole session talking about my anxiety about work and my inability to feel satisfied even when I do well — I was happy and relieved about my good review and then immediately started worrying about work again afterwards. My New Year’s resolution this year was to be less emotionally invested in my job… it’s very much a work in progress.
4:30 p.m. — My therapist encouraged me to celebrate the win of the good review, so I tell P. we’re scrapping the plan to cook a healthy stew tonight and going out instead. He makes a res at an Italian place we love, and now I have to hustle to walk T. and get my run in before dinner. Hill sprints today, which is a disgusting but mercifully short workout. I quickly shower and throw on an all-black outfit of an AllSaints slip dress, a cashmere sweater, and ancient Frye combat boots.
6:30 p.m. — We make it to dinner right on time. We split a cheese and prosciutto plate and a fennel and orange salad to start, and I get a lamb sugo pasta dish that is absolutely perfect. We each get a cocktail (Negroni for me) and a glass of red wine ($217 total, split). $108
8 p.m. — We’re in a silly, goofy mood so we go to a fancy grocery store on our way home and get a few different kinds of IPAs and a bunch of chocolate bars with different flavors and fillings ($70, split). When we get home, we smoke some weed, have some beers and chocolate and watch The World’s End, the only Cornetto Trilogy movie I haven’t seen yet. It’s not quite as good as the other two (Hot Fuzz and Shaun of the Dead), but still hilarious and right up my alley. $35
Daily Total: $343
Day Six: Friday
8 a.m. — I wake up feeling less than stellar — shouldn’t have celebrated quite so hard last night. Oh well, it’s Friday and I have no meetings today. It’s raining again, so I suit myself and T. up in our rain gear. P. has coffee ready for me when I get back, and I have TJ’s peanut butter protein granola with milk for breakfast.
12 p.m. — P. and I decide to order Souvla for lunch. We both get chicken salads and make them Greek style, which is where they put fries on top for an extra dollar ($46, split). It’s payday today! I put $2,500 towards my credit card bill and $500 to my car loan. I randomly check Paypal for the first time in a while and see that I have $186 waiting for me from Rakuten; I transfer that to my bank account. $23
3 p.m. — My morning walk in the rain reminded me that my rain boots are falling apart. I do some research and order a pair of black Merry People boots as a replacement ($152). I eat some more chocolate as a healthy afternoon snack. I have been dealing with a serious chocolate craving recently… And by “dealing with”, I mean buying and eating copious amounts of chocolate. The Tony’s Chocolonely Everything Bar is my current favorite — it has a bunch of salty fillings and is so moreish. $152
5:30 p.m. — I take T. for a long evening walk to mark the end of the work week. When I get back, I prep dinner — the once-viral Alison Roman chickpea stew, with collard greens from our CSA. While it simmers I take a 45-minute yoga class.
7 p.m. — P. and I eat the stew with Greek yogurt and crushed pita chips on top. We watch the newest episode of Severance and I have some of the aforementioned Everything Bar for dessert, then head to bed around 10 p.m.
Daily Total: $175
Day Seven: Saturday
8:30 a.m. — Wake up, get dressed in running clothes, walk and feed T. I make coffee and a standard pre-long run breakfast: three pieces of toast, two with butter, one with peanut butter, all with plum jam.
11 a.m. — We drive to a trailhead in Marin. P. is taking T. on an adventure while I do my run; the cleaners are here today so we need to be out of the house.
3 p.m. — Done with my long run! It was a gorgeous day and a big confidence booster compared to last weekend — I mostly felt great. P. and T. had a great day too, hiking and going to the beach. Unfortunately on the drive home I feel seriously nauseous, and have to pull over several times to get some fresh air (the windy roads don’t help). We get home and I quickly shower and crawl into bed for a nap.
7 p.m. — I was supposed to see a movie with friends tonight but I still don’t feel great, so I cancel and invite them over for dinner tomorrow instead. I order chicken rice from my favorite Thai place, my go-to dish if I’m feeling under the weather. I mess around on my phone for a couple hours and go to bed. $27
Daily Total: $27
The Breakdown
Conclusion
“Other than the parking tickets and rain boots, this was a pretty typical week of spending for me. I spend a lot on food — I am a ‘live to eat’ person, and it shows. I love to cook (with good ingredients), definitely have a bit of a DoorDash habit (though I don’t pay service/delivery fees through a credit card perk), and frequently enjoy a nice meal out with some drinks. I typically do two or three therapy sessions per month (both couples and individual), and as long as I can afford it, it’s worth it to me to pay out of pocket for the amazing therapists I’m currently working with. I’ve seen enough bad ones to want to hold onto the good ones. Thankfully I get a break on a good chunk of this cost through my FSA. I am still adjusting to being a car owner and all the expenses that come along with it after buying my first ever car at the end of last year. I’m working on reining in my spending this year to account for those and build my savings back up after spending $20,000 on a down payment. I’m also feeling nervous (understatement of the century) about the economy and the state of the country and world, so it’s looking like Austerity Summer 2025 is coming right up.”
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